what do men like in a woman or in a girl?
in other words what's your ideal woman?
or what traits do you look for?
2007-09-15 15:54:25 · 18 answers · asked by Veritesirum 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Totally depends on the age...Young immature guys like one thing and guys at the marrying age like a different thing.
I assume some day you're going to be old enough where you want to get married.
He's going to want someone who's not been with every Tom Dick and Harry in her teens....IF the guy is worth marrying that is.
I mean a nice guy, capable of holding a job making decent money and treating you with respect.......In the mean time, just be yourself. ...The first thing any human looks for is a physical attraction. The looks go by once the guy likes the girls personality.
Just remember that there's a lot of guys out there who are good liars and are after only one thing. Your job!, figure them out.
Personally, I like an honest, intelligent gal
who hasn't had too many trips around the block. Remember your teens are for practicing so when you reach the 20's, you'll have a clue on what kind of man to marry.
One that can support financially and with your help raise decent children...Be happy and positive, nobody likes a whiner.
2007-09-15 16:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Carl R 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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oooh....
what now?!
2007-09-15 23:04:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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i can count he he hehehe.
2007-09-15 22:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by satans_lollies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not a man.. But, I am 32 and been around enough Men to answer this question without the horrible answers you have so far.
I have 2 different answers b/c there are 2 different men.. (actually more but 2 will be the basics)
#1 Young man-
LOVES SEX, Sexy,pretty,funny,fun, nice,independent, own place and own job.
#2 Mature Man- (not old just mature)
Pretty,Fun,easy to get along with, open to new things, loves sex, loves his friends and kids, is somewhat independent but still needs him.
2007-09-15 23:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by stacie m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL-- I love that first answer! If it were only that simple!
I'm not a man, so of course, I'm curious to see answers too, but from what little I know about men...
I think they want to feel secure. They like women who are friendly and seem approachable and like they won't turn them down if they approach us.
So, best advice I can give you (from my vault--haha) if you like a guy: Take some special care to look your best, be nice, smile, talk with him, but don't seem desperate. Leave him wanting more. (This way, you'll be on his brain, rather than in his sight so much, and this is a GOOD thing... the brain can cook up so many interesting scenarios. :)
2007-09-15 23:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by Laura 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1.Most guys like girls that are confident and have an attractive gait..... in other words just be yourself WITH confidence. 2. Work on your looks, do some cardio, wash your face twice a day, brush your teeth more, eat healthier.3.if needed, work on your social skills, this means talking to people more, putting yourself out there and making yourself available. if you are all secluded and a loner, most guys will look at you and think your mean or something is wrong with you if noone is talking to you or you have no friends.
2007-09-15 23:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by Pizzzzimp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. I can tell you that a lot of men, especially American men wouldn't like me, but who cares? I've got a great partner who loves me just the way I am, a bloody freakin' feminist with socialist politics, confidence, no make up, too much intelligence and a smart mouth, who doesn't cook or clean more than her man and isn't going to be popping out any babies.
EDIT: Have as many sexual partners as you want, but be safe. As long as your healthy, it's not your future husbands business who you've been with. You can tell him that and if he's worth marrying, he won't judge you for having a sexuality.
2007-09-15 23:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men like to cheat women
they dont look 4 ideal woman or her traits
2007-09-15 22:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by frnz 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I like women who only shower once a month
Wears the same clothes for 2 weeks straight
I like women who brush their teeth once every 2 weeks
I like a woman who has my beer opened once I get to the door
I like a woman who washes my vehicle, inside and the outside
And I like a woman who makes me my bowl of cereal in the morning
2007-09-15 22:59:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I have a bit of experience at this at the age of 35. They want a woman who is clean and neat, caring and subservient, keeps a nice house, a good cook ...oh yes and big boobs is a big plus..........
2007-09-16 00:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋