how oftrn do couples have sex when they have been together or 4 or 5 years?

Answer 1

LOL..... What couple...... What sex..... xxx

Answer 2

My husband and I have been married 16 years and still have sex 4-5 times a week. It's actually gone down now that our kids are older but we still find "OUR" time. I agree it depends on the couple and we do other things together but that is something we value that's just between us. We're also very comfortable with each other and I think that's helped us get over the he wants it but she doesn't or vice versa syndrome. We went through a period where at first it was all the time and then it got monotonous but once we started experimenting and communicating we were back to newlyweds enjoying each other. So if you're not getting as much as you need then look into why and hopefully your partner will be responsive.

Good Luck!

Answer 3

Not only a matter of how long they've been together, but also how old they are, not to mention their personalities together.

If one partner wants sex more than the other, then it's something they have to work out between themselves, regardless what's "normal" for others. Statistics have absolutely no bearing on it.

I've known some couples who think they have a GREAT sex life at twice a month, while other couples that are older and been together longer are having it twice a day.

Even studies don't tell the truth because the survey group is limited, they don't always tell the truth, and there's no way to watch them 24/7 to make sure.

Answer 4

I've been married going on 5 years now and we usually have sex 2-4 times a week, depending on how tired we are or how much time we have in the morning. I like to try to be sure we make time for it every weekend and atleast once or twice during the week. The more you do it, the more you want it!

Answer 5

My husband & I have been married for 28 yrs. I met him when I was 19 yrs. old. We have two children, 17 yr. old girl & a 15 yr.old boy. We have been through lot of ups & downs. But both of us realize what the most important thing in life is,morals & values. All of us have to look in the mirror every day & face ourselves. If we don`t like what we see , we don`t have to get our good feelings from any one else which is what a lot of people do. The only person we have to impress is ourselves. Only then can we fully love another person.My husband & I MAKE LOVE at least 4 times a week. Anyone can F... a person but it has no meaning unless you make love to the person that you are in LOVE with. Need advice-please e-mail me :)[e-mail]:)

Answer 6

I've been with my husband 13 years. We have "relations" at least 2 times a week. When we were together 4 years we did it alot more than that, probably 4-5 times a week.

Answer 7

You can not have specific frequencies, it depends on the envolved spouses how they made it. What is actually happened to the married couples when keep stay longer on their married relationship longer and longer, the feeling of lust to each other getting fading away and it affected their sexual acitivity they can not perform sex as frequents as possible like in their newly married years. Some couples do sex once or twice a month depending on their physical and emotional conditioning, when they are in good moods and phsyically fit they made it often. Maintaining sports activities for the spouses or gymnastic activities will keep you in shape physically strong and sexually active which is most conponent to live happily as we do, me and my husband. our married keeping on stronger after 6 years. The secrete is openness, love, faithfulness, understanding and respect to one another.

Me and my husband still do it at least twice a day because we keep on experiements, we adoptedc any sex toy or anything that run in our minds we discussed and shared each to strengthen our appetite for our sex life, we are open when to discuss even the idea to now's " lifestyles" for both spouses so we can not cheat to each other.

Answer 8

To be honest it depends on the couple and how intamite they are. I definately know that couples of one year have sex lives that are up the roof. But for me to say that is a fact I would be incorrect. It could be possible that couples of 30 years or more can have a lot of intamite moments. It all depends on the couples and what there prefrences are.

Answer 9

it depends on the individuals in the relationship. Me and my husband have been together off and on for 13 years..... and married for a month, and we are like rabbits. always have been.... even in our "off periods". lol. nobody turns my crank like him and vice versa. On average, before I gave birth 2 weeks ago we would have sex about 5 maybe 6 times a week.....and that's after 13 years of dealing with each other. so I think it depends on the sex drive of the indivduals in the relationship and also how physically attracted they are to each other.

Answer 10

We have 20 years and still play like teenagers.

Years of marriage has nothing to do with how often - it's the relationship that does that.

If you are not getting any - take a good look at what's happening around you and what you can do to change it so you become more involved again.

Answer 11

my husband and i have been together for 8 years, and we are still at 2 times a week, it depends. sometimes were to busy with the kids, and our day at the office, and so tired, that it just isnt important. we live in such a fast paced world that sometimes we neglect one another. every relationship is different. two times a week is pretty common from friends i hear that have been together this long. sometimes more sometimes less.