I love my exboyfreind so much and i had deep feelings for him he was my first in many things and i can see in his eyes that he loves me too but i dont know if he really loves me like i love him sometimes i let my mind get in the way of my relationship and i think too much we still make eye contact and stuff and still talk but i cant stand that hes with another girl and i dont want any body else but him because i cant see myself in any bodys else arms and nobody will treat me like he did he knew all the rihg things to a girl and now hes with somebody else and i want to tell him how i feel but i cant cause i just freez and talk about something else and everytime he talks i just smile and everywhere i go im always thinking of him ive been with him for three years and im in love now and i cant see myself without him its like im addicted to him hes like my drug i have to have him with me i just cant explain how much i love him so please help me i need help i just cant forget about him
2007-09-15 15:07:26 · 11 answers · asked by patricia c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sounds like u are in love with this guy but after 3 yrs if he ain't loving you back, then yeah something is wrong indeed. tell him exactly how you feel and if he doesn't feel the same way then you need to quit wasting your time and move on, you will survive and love again one day
2007-09-15 15:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by COUNTRY GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if the doctor told you he gave you Aids, or STD>Or his lover is pregnant>Best get a grip on reality as he is a cheater with no respect for you >Your so dependent on him that he is using you and it will only get worse> Read what you wrote you have made your life on someone that threw you under the bus> Get mad an over this guy before you really get hurt>>>Sorry for being straight forward>
2007-09-15 15:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by 45 auto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a strange thing, and we can become extremely attached to someone, especially if they were our first in meany things. It really sounds like you need to move on.
You need to ask yourself -Why did he cheat on you, and now is with another woman (perhaps that woman) if he TRULY loves you ? I know it is hard to hear, and except, but in your head you know what you need to do. Give yourself time to heal AWAY from him, and then find someone new. Love will happen again.
2007-09-15 15:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading the headling I originally clicked on this question to make a smart *** remark, but reading your story I feel you honestly have a deep love. I'm sorry it has to be that way, but it's probably best to move on, you will find bigger and better things
2007-09-15 15:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Answerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to forget and move on from the pain. Or else continue to be with a cheater.
2007-09-15 15:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by Jai 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life fast. In addition to that, visit your local health clinic for a few tests.
2007-09-15 15:14:31 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is ridiculous. Do you have any respect for yourself?? If not, stick with the cheater. If you want to always be wondering what he's up to, stay with him. If you stay, you might as well say "hello, my name is door mat".
2007-09-15 15:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him and screw him cause if you go back with him again he defiently will cheat on you again cause a cheater always a cheater....
2007-09-15 15:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Sakae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does healso still have feelings for the person he cheated with?
2007-09-15 22:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheated on you, well he will cheat again and again,
once a cheater always a cheater. i know it hurts but that is life.
move on girl he is not worth it.
2007-09-15 15:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by not fair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋