Why does this happen to my wife?

Question

We aren't considering having another child for at least a year, but I am worried that her tendency to go pee as soon as we are done having sex will kill any chances of that happening.

Why does this happen to her and how can it be avoided?

I do know that women have two different "holes." HAHA

Answer 1

That is totally normal specially after you have already had a child.

It is acctually good for women to go pee after having sex as our uretha is very short and it dosn't take much to get a bladder infection just a little sperm is all it takes peeing helps avoid that.

When the time comes to really start trying just snuggle up to her for a little while afterwards and keep her in bed laying down for a moment.

Answer 2

Having to pee after sex is nature's way of avoiding infection in women. If we don't pee afterwards, then there is a chance of urinary infection. If she can hold it for a few minutes it would be best, so she can lay down with her feet elevated. In the long run, it shouldn't affect your chances too much if she can't. If it a real problem, maybe she should speak to her doctor.

Answer 3

It's not going to kill any chances of another baby. It's because you are pushing hard in areas that stimulate her bladder as well as other things. She might pee just before sex to see if that fixes it. It's healthy for her too, she can pee out any bacteria you put in there. The sperm are way, way up there and not affected by the urination.

Answer 4

I don't believe her peeing after sex would affect her ability to conceive since sperm is pushed throught the cervical opening when you ejaculate. That is a completely different area than where the pee is coming from.

I'm glad to know that I'm not the only one who gets up to pee right after sex! lol To answer your question about why it happens that she has to pee after sex....I don't know. I just know from experience that I pee BEFORE sex, but I still have the need to pee right AFTER again. Besides, doctors recommend that women pee after sex to avoid getting a urinary tract infection.

Good Luck to you both.

Answer 5

That's normal, but it CAN hurt her chances a little of becoming pregnant because it makes the sperm kind of run down, instead of up whre it needs to be, and peeing can trigger a pushing reflex that pushes it out.

I make sure to pee before sex everytime. Try to get her into that habit when you start trying.

Good luck!

Answer 6

its always a good idea to use the wash room before and after sex to reduce infectons. doing this will not reduce the chances of pregnancy because where the sperm goes in and the pee comes out are two different holes lol

Answer 7

Honestly her getting up to go pee would have little effect on the chance of a healthy couple conceiving. That being said avoid postions that put pressure on her bladder. If you use missionary, lift your body so you are not resting on her pubic area. Less pressure to that area, less chance she will have to pee when yall are done.

Answer 8

your wife is doing what most women do and preventing a UTI. My doctor told me to always pee as soon as posible after sex. Also sex puts pressure on our bladders making that need more urgent soon afterwards. Don't be mad at your wife

Answer 9

My doctor told me to always pee right after, and I got pregnant right away with both pregnancies. The sperm that will fertilize the egg is shot way up.

Answer 10

Doctors tell women to use the restroom after intercourse to avoid infections. So, most women get up and go to the bathroom. Plus, I'm sure she "just wants to clean up". Pregnancy won't be an issue, remember...you already have one child...so, when the 2 of you are ready...she'll get pregnant again. Relax :)