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I am a freshman and on friday in the girls bathroom at lunch when i was putting on make-up like i always do an 8th grader comes up (who was washing her hand) and says this 8th grade guy has a crush on me> This guy is very dorky but I am nice to him and he rides my bus. The other day i let him borrow my mp3 to take songs off of it, and at luch the next day, which was like wednesday, i walked up to his table with him and his too friends there. I said thank you and i told him i liked the songs he put on mine. And i saw his friends look at eachother like that one look other friends do when a person comes up to you that you like. Anyway i really don't want him to ask me out cuz i don't want to be mean and say no. But i definitly don't want to date him!!! Wut do i do? By the way i am popular and he is not and kind of dicusting!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!! Thank you!

2007-09-15 13:59:38 · 34 answers · asked by E-Saur 3 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

i don't mean lto be mean cuz i am not and i don't mean it as a popularity thing but idk and you guy are way harse i don't like you!!! he is a nice guy and i don't want it to be about popularity.

2007-09-15 15:51:29 · update #1

34 answers

Say something like "your such a good friend.. I don't ever want to lose that" Then if he does ask you out you can tell him that you don't want to ruin your friendship and he will believe you are actually telling him the truth.

2007-09-15 14:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by neverdugdisco 7 · 4 0

SORRY about that,
Sometimes u have to be the upper classman and just let a person know that is just how it is. I think u should go up to this guy and just say" you know that were just friends, and nothing more" than he'll get what you mean and hopefully back off, but if that does'nt work then u have to tell him you dont like as more than a friend, and maybe say that u are an upper classman and he's not, or im afreshman and ur a 8th grader and that would just be wierd if we were more than friends, and that that is so not possible.
Hope every thing works out!

2007-09-15 14:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Be aware, one day you may be a dork girl loving a popular guy.

Come on, you are not Britney Spears, you are just an ordinary girl in a high school, you don't have any fans. Wake up super star.

It doesn't mean you are a good girl when everyone knows your name in the school. Frankly it doesn't mean anything at all.

In high school & college, I was that guy who you consider "popular", but I've never cared for what people thinks about me. I've dated these girls you call dorks. And I'm happy & proud.

Don't treat him as a dork, treat him as one of your friends.
If he asked you out, simply tell him "sorry, you are a good guy, but you are a good friend, and I think this won't work. I like you alot, but just as a friend".

2007-09-18 21:09:07 · answer #3 · answered by Sulto 2 · 0 0

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2016-12-26 12:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

I don't see why not just because your popular doesnt mean you shouldnt date him. and what make's him dicusting? If you can have fun & talk or in any way conntect w/ him then you should be his girl.. Or is it because you dont wanna be seen w/ some one who's nerdy looking.. it's sad how you guy's jugde people on the way they dress & look.

2007-09-15 14:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just let things simmer for a bit. he hasn't said anything about it yet, so he's not ready to make a move. If he does what i've done before, he'll just end up forgetting about it, because he was to embarassed to ask you in the first place.

Good luck! From another freshman!

2007-09-15 14:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by jegsracing7 2 · 0 0

well, you can give him a chance or let him down. how do you feel when you get dumped? he may turn out really good for you! don't go on anything really romantic. if it works out congrats! if it doesn't let him down easily. if it is an no, tell him you think it would be better to stay friends or that you just aren't ready for anything like that between you 2 and point out the good things about him first.
GoOd LuCk!!!!!

2007-09-15 14:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by Person 3 · 1 0

OK your popular. When someone is "Popular" There is no need to say hey look at me I'm popular. Anywho. He deserves someone better than you. Hopefully he won't make that mistake and ask you out. As for you. Your problably missing out on a great guy. You have a lot of maturing to do

2007-09-15 14:11:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Maybe that 'look' you interpeted between his friends was something else. He might not like you for real, but might just warming up to get that 'I'm-talking-to-a-popular-girl' factor. If you don't like him, just don't associate with him. And I'd also advise you to stop saying things like 'I'm popular' because half of the time, people who hear that don't like the person it's coming from because it sounds totally snotty.

2007-09-15 14:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by Rawr_Kitty 3 · 1 0

just remember that disgusting 8th graders grow up to own companies and pose for the cover of forbes and popular guys you like now will be the bald ones at you class reunion. but *off my soapbox* if you really aren't interested in him, say something like you're not really interested in dating cuz you're still young. it'll work as long as you don't date anyone new till he's a little more over you. and stress that you value his friendship. so you don't totally kill him you maneater! lol j/k

2007-09-15 14:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by Just Me 2 · 0 1

HAha high school predicaments i remember thee! OK heres the deal. You have done nothing wrong. Even if he asks you out you can easily (pretend) to look bewildered and say something along the lines of "sry but i dont really know you that well". But the fact of the matter is, if hes one of the dorky kids, he wont even work up the courage to ask you.

*to other readers*
Not to worry fellows! High school narrow minded ness tends to fall out after college. You remember right?

2007-09-15 14:06:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

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