Don't you think it has to be hard for a guy to blow a girl off when he's done using her?

Question

I know it's terrible and all, but men are also human. Do you think on some level they hate themselves just a little bit when they see the hurt in her eyes after telling her it was just casual, when he knows she really liked him?

I guess because men are'nt as hormonal and emotional and whatnot, they're able to bury those thoughts of self hatred.

I just don't think they're all completely selfish. Just mostly.

Answer 1

I think it probably depends on the guy. If he's one of the less-selfish ones, then he might worry about it - but I ask, if he's so unselfish, why would he do that in the first place?

But overall, I think they don't care.

Answer 2

Depends on the guy really. I know some really amazing guys who would rather lay down in traffic than hurt a woman. They're out there.

On the other hand, I know guys who do nothing but think with their dick, are emotional vampires, compulsive liars and constantly need pity parties and ego stroking sessions to feel good about themselves. Those are the ones that have no issue using women.

Answer 3

It depends entirely on the guy. Some aren't bothered by it at all, some are, and some wouldn't treat a girl like that to begin with.

Answer 4

Men aren't emotional like women,so I don't think most men have any regrets when they've used someone.

Answer 5

Speaking for myself, No, it's not hard.. but... it's the best way to end up very,very lonely, so I am thankful I ceased to be an azz hole.

Answer 6

truthfully, i don't think they care at all. this has never happened to me, but why would he feel bad if he decided to use her in the first place?

Answer 7

Heck no, it is easy.