my best guy friend kissed me and said he loves me but im married . he has been my friend for 6yrs why would he do somthing like that? i had feelings for him a long time ago but they have past. will this distroy my marrige?
2007-09-15 12:30:07 · 15 answers · asked by Reina De Reinas! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just say. "Please don't do that again" It shouldn't ruin your marriage.........
2007-09-15 12:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by chazta01 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it would mess up your marriage. Did u kiss him back. Your husband it not going to let him around u. Now what would u do if a female friend kiss him. Put like that, some people u have to move on from. He known u r married so he should respect you, your husband and you all marriage.
2007-09-16 00:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop the friendship with this person at once and immediately tell your husband what he did. Your friend is a day late and a dollar short. You are married and your marriage should be your first priority. Your friend is not a very good friend after all it seems, otherwise he NEVER would have put you in this horrific situation! What an absolute loser and jerk!
2007-09-15 20:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by yeahyeahyeah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your friend what he did was totally inappropriate and that you take the vows of marriage very seriously. Tell him because of that, you can no longer be his friend because the lines of friendship and love between the two of you appear to be blurred.
Your first committment is to your husband and you would do well to telll your husband what happened and tell him that you've sent this so-called "friend" packing because you are totally in love with him, not some guy who is stuck in the past.
2007-09-19 16:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking why you ask this question. In the back of your mind, what are you wondering ? If you want to pursue, it will destroy your marriage, if you don't want to have a divorce in the future, you have 2 choices 1) have an affair and hide it well (very well), or 2) end it now.
2007-09-15 19:43:06 · answer #5 · answered by Ski Bum 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop the friendship. It has taken a turn in the wrong direction. Your marriage comes first. If you do stay friends with him, it will cause problems because you now know that he has feelings for you as more than a friend.
2007-09-15 19:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Only you can know if it will destroy your marriage. If he kissed you, then I would just file it away and keep your distance from him, you owe your husband that respect. And by telling your husband you will only hurt him.
But, if you want him too, then get out of your marriage and give your husband the chance at a life.
2007-09-15 20:23:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he want to sleep with u a kiss now a walk later a plone call to see what up if u said u gone to the store he will show up he want sex it best for u to tell him not to kiss u call or stop by if your hus is not home if u dont tell your hur he kiss u your marry will be ok
2007-09-15 19:44:55 · answer #8 · answered by Paul S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did the same thing once that your friend did.
I kissed a friend who was married because I liked him, he told his wife, and in the end we remained friends, knew the boundary, and I was even cool with his wife. :)
Honesty is the best policy.
2007-09-15 20:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stop the friendship. Nothing is worth risking your marriage.
Plus- wouldn't you expect your hubby to do the same if this where the other way around!
2007-09-15 19:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by fiona1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Tell him what you told us, that he is your best guy friend and you had past stronger feelings for him but not anymore. Simple and direct. He will have to decide if he can deal with that and handle himself appropriately.
2007-09-15 19:39:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋