I want to be crushed on so badly that i don't care if its a man or a women . Is this normal?
I'm a straight women
2007-09-15 12:15:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yes, it's very normal. You sound like your bi-curious.
2007-09-15 12:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by PrEgNaNtChEaRlEEdeRR! 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
having good friends ,or being loved, " Male or Female
Is to be crushed upon "
But to be crushed upon by someone else can create other problems and Also leaves you responsible of u and your crushies feelings !
Also : begging or smothering or just , being around someone 24 7 can be a too much sometimes !
Subconciously.
The let down maybe a problem for some of us !
Is this Normal ? you ask Yes
2007-09-15 20:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by badbob 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that is right. I am sorry that you fell that way. I am sure that there is a guy out there for you somewhere, you are young just be paitent, don't let despiration turn you in to something that you are not. Life is about so much more than finding a boyfriend or some one to crush on you. Set your sights on what is really important, and be your self and the right guy will come along.
2007-09-15 19:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you just want some intimate attention. I can understand that. Infatuation can feel very intense and make you feel alive. I do not think you are desperate, maybe just a bit lonely. Or maybe you just would like a really good romantic friendship to stave off the boredom. I understand completely.
2007-09-23 15:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Janet M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're insecure and need validation of your worth and attractiveness by another human being. It's normal and it's also a red-flag that you should seek some sort of therapy to bolster your self esteem. Once you're happy with yourself, you won't need to rely on what other's think of you, you'll be confident and then you'll attract a mentally healthy person into your life. Whether its a man or a woman really won't matter.
2007-09-23 17:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by usmcmama826 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur in need of attention...maybe because u dont get it at home from ur family...
so ur looking for attention in the wrong places....
u cant just crush on someone b/c u need the attention. That's just wrong...
Not only do u hurt urself, but the other people (neither male or female)...
2007-09-15 19:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by Maria ☮ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhm I don't think so.... because if your straight you wouldn't want some one gay or bi to crush on you.... XD besides if you don't care if it's a girl, you might wana give them a try....
2007-09-15 19:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that is about as normal as a feeling as anyone can have
just to be wanted is very nice and very flattering
2007-09-15 19:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Mikey ® Angel VG♥ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
It is a great feeling to be the object of someones affection as long as it is with good intentions of course. (smack)
2007-09-15 19:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by outtahere2day 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're straight?
Because I'm already developing a crush on you. ; )
2007-09-15 19:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
you seem to be a bit confused. Try to stick to the opposite sex.
2007-09-15 19:38:13 · answer #11 · answered by K Q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋