Okay, I'm 14 year old boy. and I was swimming at the health club. After I was done swimming, I staterd to walk over to the locker room. and this women and her son wear walking behind me. Kay? Once, I was in there, I opened my locker and stripped down. Then the lady's son walked in. He walked in and went over to a urinal. Then, his mother walked in and asked him what he wanted to eat. and I was just standing there. Butt naked. Um, what can I do about this? and is this normal?
I couldn't get any answers at society so I thought I'd try here.
2007-09-15 10:00:00 · 17 answers · asked by Chris! 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I understand what you are saying. The same thing happened to me where a lady walked into the mens locker room. The one difference is that I was in my 30's instead of 14. Here I was just out of the shower standing in front of the locker and a female maintenance women walks into the locker area right next to me and two other guys. I didn't say anything because for some reason I felt like maybe I was wrong for being naked. Even though I had just got out of the shower and was standing in the men's locker room. Just think if you did that in a females locker room or restroom they would be screaming and all sorts of things. Then another time I was staying in a motel and the cleaning lady came in just after I got out of the shower. I even had the door tag hanging on the door but she came in anyway. This happened when I was about 25. Once again I thought maybe I had done something wrong since I was naked again, but in a private motel room. I hope you get the answer because I wonder why myself women can walk in on males but don't think about doing it to the female.
It happens all the time in professional sports lockers. You have the women sports writers who come right into the lockers after a sporting event. I know it happens because there was a big story back in the 90's in the Cincinnati Bengals locker room after a football game where a player decided he was not going to cover up. Everyone made him out to be the bad guy because he let her see him nude. In my opinion he did nothing wrong, he just let her see what she wanted to see to begin with.
You did nothing wrong, she was wrong and had no business coming into the men's locker room. I feel sorry for her son he will never have any privacy as he grows up.
2007-09-15 14:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Racer20 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you know the woman's name, it's probably too late to do anything. Your best move would have been to register a complaint with the manager of the health club.
I know that must have been embarrassing for you. She has no business walking into the men's locker room!
One other thought, right after college, my brother was a teacher. He and some of the other guys at school liked to play basketball in the school gym after all the students went home. After their game, the guys would all hit the showers. My brother and his friends didn't realize the janitorial staff would be cleaning the locker room at that time of day. The staff, by the way, was all female! So, when they heard the women entering the locker room and he and his buddies were all just stepping out of the showers...instead of quickly trying to wrap a towel around their waist...LOL......they all just put their towels over their heads! HAHAHAHA......he said the ladies did not quit coming in to clean at that time of day....and everytime he and the guys were in their nude...they kept on doing the same thing.....! The ladies never knew who they were seeing! LOL
2007-09-17 06:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by judson783 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very sick mama dog is an extremely stressful situation. And I understand your anger at some of the answers that you received. It is normal for you to want to vent back to these folks some of your anger and frustration. So, try to remain calm and keep your focus on your dog & pups. Don't let this cloud your true goal - a healthy dog. And yes, I would love to know this outcome. Kudos to you for your quick action in caring for 7 pups! It isn't easy! I wish that more people would realize that there are situations that stump even the best of vets. While the calicum issue is the most common with these symptoms, it is not the only cause. And your dedication to this dog and her pups is very, very admirable. So, you know that you are responding to this crisis in the best manner possible. You are doing all you can do in an extremely difficult situation. Let God sort out the rest. Peace
2016-05-20 04:59:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The lady should have taken her son to the ladies room if he was too young to be left alone to pee and she should have just stood at the door but not in the locker room. I think she had a thing for looking at young boys and saw what she wanted to. You should go to the mgr of the pool and complain if it ever happens again.
2007-09-15 10:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by richmorecockagainandagain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's the MEN'S locker room, you could've (or can in the future) grabbed something, cover your privates and hollered, "THIS IS THE MEN'S ROOM!" Afterward, report the incident. If they don't give you satisfactory response, I suspect they're dissing you because of your age.
Sometimes moms get so focused on protecting their kids they do dumb things like that, but that's no excuse. She should've found a male to escort her child, or taken the boy into the women's bathroom or stayed home until she can manage oversight of her son without imposing on other's rights.
2007-09-15 10:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by Zeera 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea Chris that is not normal. I do not know what gave that mother the idea that she could just walk in to the locker room. I think you need to tell the people who work there and report it. people should not be able to just go in there.
2007-09-15 10:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by carriec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a question to ask the people at the front desk of the health club.
2007-09-15 10:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not normal.
Nothing you can do about it now. It's over and done with.
This lady is an ignorant person, who should have known better as she walked in behind you and knew you were there.
I guess I would have covered up quickly, and yelled out "Lady, do you mind?"
2007-09-15 10:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude i kinda agree with all the answers. you should have walked over to her (naked) and said that she shouldnt be in there cause it is the guys room. and tell the front desk that she was in there
curtdude
2007-09-15 10:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should always keep yourself cover up in the public no matter you are in locker or bathroom.
She should have knocked or yelled before enter the men's room. You could have said something like " mam, i am sorry but i am in here taking care of my business." she really could have waited outside!!!
2007-09-15 10:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by judy06 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋