why does my mate leave my side when I get sick and I dont get sick often ?

Question

I have been in this relationship for a while and have tolerated unfaithfulness also

Answer 1

Some people cannot handle the illnesses of loved ones so they step back, the only way they can handle the stress and uncertainty.

But communication is vital in a relationship and you need to tell your significant other (mate) that you wish s/he would be more attentive when you are ill. You cannot expect your mate can read your mind!!!