I have been married to my wife for five years, and we have two children together. when we have sex,and she has already had multiple orgasms (at least two) she will sometimes cry. I have asked about this and she says it just feel as though she can't take it anymore, it feels too good. She has never been molested or raped, or even had a bad experience with sex in general. I'm just not sure if I should be flattered or concerned as I have only seen this with a few of the other women I 've been with. Is there something going on that I've never heard of or is this just an emotional release through orgasm? I'm not king-ding-a-ling (average) so I sure i'm not hurting her, so what's the deal?
2007-09-15 05:13:26 · 20 answers · asked by Snakebite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This doesn't happen every time, just every once in a while. and she gets regular check-ups with her gyn. we reciently had a child (6 mos.) but before that this happened. As far as the break-down, no-way. If you knew her, that would not be an issue as she is very vocal if there is a problem, not bitchy, but self-assured. pretty awesome.
2007-09-15 05:27:59 · update #1
OH NO, not sadness! haha! she laughs as she relaxes as she feels embarrased (she says). But I have assured her, that there is nothing to be embarrased about. We connect great if we argue or fight, within three hours we are good. we communicate VERY well, best friends.
2007-09-15 05:31:35 · update #2
not a boo-hoo crying btw, eyes watering and a whimper at first, then a giggle and hide the face with her hands for a second, then a giggle again.
2007-09-15 05:33:58 · update #3
Hmm. I'm not sure. How close are the two of you when it has nothing to do with sex? I remember when my hubby and I were having problems "connecting" years ago,...I mean that in a non-physical way, I would feel sad and sometimes tear up after we were intimate because I felt like..."well the only thing we had in common has now been satisfied" So, what is left?
So, my advice to you would be to make sure that all of the needs are being met outside of sex, and see if this sadness starts to get better. It may have nothing to do with that..and it may have nothing to do with you...just speaking from my own experience.
Good luck to you!
2007-09-15 05:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by ShineOn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is nothing NOTHING to be concerned about. In fact, kudos for you, for making your wife so happy. I do the same thing and it is not sadness, it is not any other emotion but PURE joy!! Think of what your body feels like when you orgasm once....now combine this by two or three?? Its crazy...your emotions become intense...laughing, crying, its a good thing. Not to mention that your sensitive parts become even more sensitive. Keep up the good job!
2007-09-15 13:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by Princess Gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard it said that even "happy" tears are tears born of the fear of losing something. And I gotta tell ya, when my estrogen levels are high a cute puppy can make me cry.
If the wife says there is nothing wrong then don't stress about it. Just realize that the estrogen roller coaster has some extreme highs and extreme lows. Sorry about that guys.
Good luck.
Peace.
2007-09-15 12:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cried once after a great night with my husband a women gets very emotional during sex and I was just so happy and in love that the tears started flowing feel honored
2007-09-15 12:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by momo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me a few times, during sex I'll start feeling so much love and emotion for my husband that I start crying but my tears are tears of joy because I'm so happy that he's making love to me. I think you should be flattered that your wife crys during sex that just means that you satisfy her and she loves you.
2007-09-15 15:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Castro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a good feeling but as with most things ladies do have different limits. There are heights of pleasure shared that equal this or go higher but only with the right partner sounds like you have what is takes and so does she. Have fun. Good luck.
2007-09-15 12:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by Miki M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she actually crying or her eyes are watering?
I would say it was just an emotional release.
I can't say I've ever cried after having an orgasm.......maybe kicking myself in the butt with whom I chose to do the deed with, but never cried.
2007-09-15 12:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be flattered. You're obviously doing it right. It's emotional release.....how lovely for her....and multiple orgasms too. Lucky girl. What a stud!
2007-09-15 12:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by chris n 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes after really great sex I get teary eyed too. Unless she is doing this EVERY time you have sex I wouldn't worry about it.
I'm pretty sure it is just the hormones and dopamine rushing through us that makes us so weepy.
2007-09-15 12:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by bored@work 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be flattered. This is exactly what you said, an emotional release. Although it can be related to abuse that is not always the case. Don't be concerned, keep doing what you're doing! :)
2007-09-15 12:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋