I am hurting quite a lot. My boyfriend ended our relationship 6 months ago, the break up was really painful for me and while I was trying to move on, he always stopped me by telling me that it's too harsh to cut all contact and that we could loose each other for good. In this case I didn't cut any contact with him and was communicating with him and I even met him a month ago. He told me that he's too scared of loosing me if we stop all contact and that all chances for us to get back together in the future could be spoiled. About 3 weeks ago I sat down and sent him an email saying good bye and he wrote back. The emails were very loving and very kind but a few days later he called me telling me it was too hard like this. But now he is not communicating with me, I tried to call him so many times and sent so many messages but he said we need stick to our decisions and he is not replying? I am so hurt over this because I feel like he is the one now who cut it all with me. I am so hurt:-(
2007-09-15 04:35:38 · 8 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You broke up. He wanted to stay friends, he found another girl to be with and now he doesn't want to be friends anymore. It's typical.
You have no future with this guy. If you had a future with him, you'd still be together. Move on and get a new date.
2007-09-15 04:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So by the way you are saying this, HE ended the relationship. So from that, if he is saying things are too hard, and he wants to keep in contact so it doesn't spoil you being together in the future, why don't you just get back together now? If he is a complete jerk, then do whatever it that you can to move on. It will probably be one of the hardest things to do in your life if he is that person that honestly broke your heart, but just think of positives out of the situation, and do whatever it is you can to keep going.
2007-09-15 04:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by JoeyK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give yourself a few days of not contacting him, I know it will be hard for you to do this, but give it a go. This might make him think and contact you, if he does not contact you, then I would class the relationship in total. Move on and enjoy your life.
2007-09-15 04:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by 3dom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But it's over....you cant continue talking to someone when theres no relationship. You will get over it...took me a year and then I was fine.
2007-09-15 04:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by Daisyhill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you should stop talking to him. You deserve better that to have your feelings manipulated by the selfish "push-pull" game of his.
2007-09-15 04:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by WOMBAT, Manliness Expert 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did it hunny ~ its the only way both of you can move on
take it day by day
2007-09-15 04:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...well it kinda seems as if he did something that would have hurt you and he could't take seeing you and having such a lie on his sholders...or he just wasn't feeling you anymore and turned it all to drama so it would seem like he still cared...
2007-09-15 04:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tamara M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on girl, best of luck to u
2007-09-15 05:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by tracieisland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋