i have been sleeping with my brothers wife for almost a year now?

Question

she keeps saying she will leave him but never does...i love my brother but i love her too...i know she will be happier with me and he is mature enough to move on from it but how can i get what i want out of this?

Answer 1

And you can still look at your face in the mirror each day?

Answer 2

First of all U know and i know that its wrong to sleep with you brother wife. She is family its just like she is your sister now. U should ask yourself will i sleep with my sister? You also need to except that fact that u have a problem because its not normal for someone to want their brother's wife. I promise u can find your own wife and leave your brother's wife alone. The both of u are wrong she is as much fault than u are. The both of you'll need to seek some a counselor and prayer. Thats all i can tell u guys.

Answer 3

There are times that we cross the line and you have done so. Now first of all how would feel if your brother was having an affair with your wife. Then lets just put thin in prospective she is cheating on your brother with you, so what makes you think she won't cheat with your nephew on you, she seem to want to keep it in the family. ,Now you on the other hand will have to try and explain to YOUR brother how it came about that you are sleeping with h is wife. What makes you think that she is going to leave her hubby for his brother when she can have her cake and eat it too. Blood is thicker than water and she seams to have figured that out and is playing her game and you just got caught up in her web. not meaning to sound ugly but did you think about this before you jumped into bed with your brothers wife.

Answer 4

Nothing good will come of this. Not sure how tight you are with the rest of your family, but that's your BROTHER!!! There will be family-related events that you will have to encounter your brother at, even if she DOES leave him. You will cause total chaos within your family, should this get out and if you do end up with her, you could be cut off from your entire family!

You didn't say if there are kids involved, but think about that for a moment if there are...oh it just makes me cringe!

I'm not judging you - I realize that our hearts have minds of their own...but given the situation, the best advice I can give you is to tell her, "I love you and I want to be with you, but this will kill my brother, destroy my family, and since you've not left him yet, then I need to not see you anymore - if, down the road, you do leave my brother and make peace with him so that everyone would be more accepting of us, THEN I will be with you".

And you need to NOT see her or talk to her until that happens.

I know it's not what you want to hear - but it's all I have to give you....

Good luck.

Answer 5

you have got to be kidding how could you say that you love your brother and betray him like that you and his wife are both going to wind up very sorry for this in the long run because you are both not only hurting your brother but yourselves you apparently have very low self esteem if you are having an affair with your brothers wife there are plenty of single women out there that need love and attention from a man you should be on your knees praying and asking your brother for forgiveness and someone needs to tell him just how much of a brother you truly are

Answer 6

Well, I wish I could be more positive with you, but you say you love your brother? No you dont. You are thinking of yourself and you feel your brother is very inferior to you--you need to come down several notches.

Hey, take his wife off his hands, I am sure your brother can find a better wife--he can only go up in choice of wives. You and the wife deserve each other---and , you will have to make a choice---your brother or this woman or is is too late?

She's mature? Get real.

Answer 7

Your brother is your own flesh and blood, why you would screw him over like that is beond me. In the end though, brother or not, sleeping with a married chick never works out. Either she never leave the person, or if she does, how long do you really think she is going to stick around? If she can't keep her pants on while she is married, what do you think she is going to do when she leaves him?

Answer 8

Wake up, brother! Shes only using you to get what exactly she wants and has no real intentions of leaving her husband. Youre only a moron if you believe her lies. Shes telling you what you want to hear to keep you at her side or ese shed leave your brother and be with you right now. You are in a no wn situation here and youll never ever get what you want so time has come to end it unless her marriage situation changes. Good luck

Answer 9

What the hell do you want? Your brothers wife or your brother? She is cheating on him you know and in a most hurtful and viscious way and so are you. You probably deserve each other and can be sure, if you do get what you want, she will be cheating on you in no time at all. At least you'll have what you want and your brother will be free of you and this b***h he married by mistake. I wish you all the worst.

Answer 10

Well acording to your past questions you have a wife, girlfriend and now sleeping with your brothers girlfriend. I didn't see one real question throughout your entire list of questions. Does this really turn you on? By the way, did you ever get your cat to mate with your dog? Or did you ever figure out if your cat was really dead? How about your wife, did you ever get her to smell any better?
What a troll.

Answer 11

Who needs enemies with brothers like you?
The person you are hurting the most is your brother because he is your blood relative. Women are everywhere and what she did to your brother can do it to you in the future. On the other hand you are both the same and maybe you w/put up with each other trash.