Married people, have you ever been hit on by other people because they think you are attractive? Also, is your spouse comfortable when other people hit on you?
2007-09-15 03:47:40 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This includes strangers hitting on you!
2007-09-15 03:58:25 · update #1
YES I HAVE...it usually happens when she's not around though..i have gotten special attention from waitresses and store clerks...she doesn't SEEM to mind
2007-09-22 03:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by bigmha2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not married but I was for twenty some years. It is noones fault if you get hit on if you arent encouraging it. The person who hits on you needs to be put in their place. It would make most spouses uncomfortable, yes. Are you enjoying being hit on? That says a lot about you. Some jokes turn out to be not so funny sometimes. Have respect for your partner and don't allow this. It hurts a marriage, believe me. There are many ways to have fun that don't hurt the other person. I also broke up with a boyfriend of two years because he enjoyed being hit on so much. He was not worth my time, and I wasted two years of my life dating an idiot.
2007-09-22 19:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by white tiger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm attractive and get hit on by others. I hate going out alone because I hate other men looking at me the way they do. I like to cling to my husband. Marriage doesn't stop a lot of others in the world who have NO respect for marriage from hitting on people who are married
2007-09-20 17:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was hit on all the time. Funny how so many women defend fidelity and yet there are all those women hitting on married men.
Then my wife left me for another (married) guy. She was always jealous when I was hit on. I never hit back, but I guess I might as well have. This is why I never trust anything any woman says.
2007-09-15 04:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. Happens a lot in the field I was in. Mind you, when I left media and went to work at a bank (I know, weird change), I had a fella ask me out, and when I said no, even though I'd told him a million times that I was married, he asked "Why?"
I waved my wedding ring in front of his face and said, "I don't think my husband would really like that! And neither would I!"
My husband doesn't seem to mind other men hitting on me-- it's the ones I'm just FRIENDS with that bother him!
Some people really don't get it... he persisted even after that!
2007-09-22 10:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by LJG 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get hit on by strangers alot when we go out. My hubby said he doesn't mind cause he knows that I am his and it is a huge compliment to him, knowing that others fancy me too. It also makes me feel very confident and happy. When others hit on him, i feel the same way. We love each other very much and no amount of flirting from strangers will change that. ♥
2007-09-22 18:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a silly question.
Married people are generally hit on more then single people are. It appears to be safer for them, because they have the no strings attached thing going on.
I personally think it's cute when people hit on my husband, as long as he comes home to me, it's all good and it's a nice ego boost.
2007-09-20 09:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I both have been hit on. Her absolutely more than me. Its going to happen once in a while and that is just the way it is. Half the population is male the other half is female. Somebody is going to hit on you sooner or later. Its not a big deal and I don't worry about it. I know she is going home with me.. :). And if not, I thinking new Porshe and a bottle of Old Spice!
2007-09-15 05:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I've been hit on, but never responded. Now when I meet a new woman, in the first couple of minutes, I mention, that I'm married, and it seems to head off most advances.
2007-09-15 04:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course people hit on married people; all the time. To tell you the truth, my spouse doesn't mind it as he takes it for someone thinking his wife is attractive or sexy or nice; whatever. He knows I would never reciprocate, so he does not worry about that. To me, if they are hitting on me and I tell them, thank you for the compliment but I am very happy with my husband - and they accept that; it is just a little ego boast for me. If they go further and are persistent, then it is not a compliment but someone who wishes to do harm to me by ruining my marriage.
2007-09-15 03:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, I'm married, but not dead. As long as I don't flirt back my spouse if fine with it. If anyone gets obnoxious I gladly let him deal with them though. He gets hit on too, but I trust him and don't take it to heart. That is just the small price I pay for marrying such a hot guy!
2007-09-15 04:06:33 · answer #11 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋