Are you DRAWN to HAPPY or LONELY people?

Question

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Good Day/Evening 2all!!!!

Answer 1

I am simply drawn to people, regardless if they're happy or otherwise.

Being with a happy person invites one to appreciate life
Being with a lonely person encourages one to look at life closer.

Reaching out to happy people gets one more friends
Reaching out to lonely people MAKES one A friend

I think the world is beautiful because of the diversity of the people across it
So I do not discriminate, I learn from all….

Good Day/Evening to you too, Enki.

Answer 2

I believe I am much like most folks, drawn to happy people mainly. And note I say mainly, because I think lonely people are in themselves the culprit in adding to their loneliness, as they withdraw from society or friends and neighbors. I know that when I have been lonely, and for no reason it seems at times, I don't even answer the phone, but then in about 3 days I am back up and running.

However, if I know that someone is experiencing a lonely period, I will make an extra effort to get with that person, see them or talk with them on a daily bases. However, should the person push me aside, then I back off, but not for too long, for loneliness can develop in to depression, and that is not necessary when maybe, just a smile, a quick cup of coffee, or a call will truly help out the situation.

Also, I have approached people like in Starbucks, who sit alone and have started conversations. Should they not wish to talk, I leave them to their privacy, but should they, then I have made a new acquaintance or at least started my day off with a spark.

Answer 3

I am drawn to happy and lonely people. I think that is because I can relate to both. I like being in a good mood and look for others who can give me what I need to make me happy. I relate to lonely people because I know how lonely feels. I am drawn to lonely people because I don't feel alone in the fact that I am lonely.

Hi enki : )

Answer 4

Hi Enki,
Friendship is being there when friends are happy and sharing their happiness by being happy for them or when they're lonely and offering a shoulder to cry on. We all go through phases of ups and downs and it's good to know there are people around who will help when we need them. As long as there is a good balance of give-and-take in relationships, the relationship is a healthy one. If however, one person is too dependant on another and tends to drain the other emotionally and physically without giving much back in return, that isn't good for either. One will start to feel used or abused and the other should be encouraged to start standing on their own two feet. Generally though, in true friendships, sharing includes the happy times and the sad times.
Polly

Answer 5

Some people are lonely when they're happy, others are happy when they're lonely More are unhappy because they're lonely and yet others are lonely because of unhappiness . There is no measures for all, as one man's meat is another man's poissôn. I am more drawn to those who are integrated and happy being alone.

Answer 6

I'm drawn to both I love bubbly happy people that make me laugh but I'm also drawn to lonely people. I always want to see the underdog win or come out on top.

Answer 7

I am drawn to happy people, but do not ignore the lonely.

Answer 8

I am drawn to happy people more than lonely people.

Answer 9

I am drawn to happy people - life should be as much of a pleasure as we can make it - - and the attitude and success rubs off - - however, lonely people are attracted to me - and there is a certain joy in helping them, but, sometimes it can get to be a little too much...

Answer 10

I'm drawn more towards the lonely. The happy will be just fine without me!