2007-09-15 01:03:12 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
sex and a good meal
2007-09-15 01:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honest answer huh? O.K. I am going to say it depends on the age of the man, the age of the woman and the age of the relationship.
We guys know that at the same age we are less mature than the woman. When we are young it works to our favor since this immaturity is off the charts and we want a mother figure along with unlimited sex. However, as we grow, the world we live in reminds us that "we" are the providers, "we" are the strength of the family unit. "we" are responsible when the family fails.... so we no longer want this unbalance maturity level in our lives and two things happen. 1) The woman takes a back seat and lets Bozo take the wheel, or 2) World war 3 hits the fan and divorce is deemed necessary.
Now the relationships that make it are the ones where the maturity levels are equal throughout the marriage or it is understood who the leading person will be in the beginning. That's why older men go after younger women, and we have rampant men's mid-life-crisis cases. SURE sex is a primary focal point, but, truth be known, we men want respect over and above everything else, but, not at the expense of our wives esteems. You want the marriage to last, the relationship to start, the sex to be more than intimate? Let the guy grow up first. Don't lead him to maturity, but, nudge him there bit by bit. Behind every great man is a great woman. That quote isn't just fancy words, but, honest, straight forward, hard hitting evidence!
2007-09-15 01:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to know? Men are needy creatures, they like sex, intimacy and someone to do their washing, ironing and other stuff. Any man who says he is not after sex, but loves you, is most probably lying. That is why men get aggresive and abrupt, because when things don't go their way, they lose it. Men when they marry women or get into a relationship are most probably thinking of your pink oyster between your legs. When a man looks at you and smiles, he is most likely having dirty thoughts. When you wear your hair out men are thinking of running their fingers through it.
Sex is the most dominant thing on a man's mind. Most men anyway
2007-09-15 01:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by lods J 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
a woman once said to me "a chef in the kitchen, a mute in the lounge and a uh s*** in the bedroom" I was kinda shocked, but I guess they were mostly right, a chef in the kitchen, (good food- good covo and I enjoy cooking anywayz) that I can have an intellectual conversation with, who can love me for all my oddities, that will support me in my life choices, and a willing and passionate lover in the bedroom. Most other things I can think of are optional or can be compromised
2007-09-15 01:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think men want the same things that women want. Someone that you can trust and count on. Someone who will be your "up" when you are "down". They like feeling special just as we do. Gentleness, kindness and a loving nature that you can express without feeling like you're a sucker or hen pecked. A mutual respect and friendship.
2007-09-15 01:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by Funny Girl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A manipulation-free relationship, for starters.
We do not want to read our partner's mind or try to interpret signals. We do not want to be forced to move faster in a relationship than we are ready. We do not want to be manipulated into taking all the blame for things gone wrong. We do not want to be on the receiving end of game playing.
2007-09-15 01:19:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the man and the woman. Friendship, sex, love, companionship, marriage, but all from different women.
2007-09-15 01:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by Fröken Fräken 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing women want from men
2007-09-15 01:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by peter t 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I could only aspire to the fact that another human being would just want to be loved for who they are. Not what appears to be, not the physical aspect but just for what is. To be known for your heart. That is all. Your heart and soul is the life of it all. If you don't love me for who I am you don't love me at all.
2007-09-15 05:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a married man (Over 30) I can honestly say all I want is to be near my wife, anything else is just a bonus.
Yes, she is that great.
2007-09-15 01:10:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm looking for someone who is attractive, kind-hearted, and appreciative of me.
She should also know enough to expect no less from a guy.
2007-09-17 02:06:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋