i don't understand narsistic,vindictive,stupid people .?

Question

i had a friend ,well i thought he was a friend. apparentley he started feeling more than just friends,and i wasn't.in front of other people he would belittle me,tawnt ,call me names.accuse me of wanting his friends (guy friends)which i didn't.on top of all that make a scene in front of my lanlord ,and work assoc. he would appogize and it would happen all over again.he lives at home,hasn't ever had to buy his own car,and he is 43.what make a person like this tic.i accually feel sorry for him.to me he is pathetic....

Answer 1

hes a jerk, move on.

Answer 2

He is a petted, spoiled, mama's boy. Ignore him and move on. He treats his parents that way and he will treat everyone that way, because that is what he has been taught by his parents. He doesn't know any better. Him being 43, he is to old to change also. His parents let him get away with it, now he feels he is supposed to do that to everyone.

Answer 3

In my experience people like this are immature and selfish. They also tend to be a tad insecure. I'd cut him out of your life. You really don't need the stress and you are better than that.

Good Luck.

Answer 4

confident i understand the element which you're attempting to make me understand in an comprehensible way that's amazingly un comprehensible yet nonetheless comprehensible which makes me to assert UNDERSTOOD..

Answer 5

He needs the help of a counsellor. You should move away from him, the earlier you do it, the better.

Answer 6

You forgot to add that he is a male chauvinist pig, and a immature, irresponsible assho#e!!

Answer 7

Hes a loser ...He cheated on his wife....