Because I've never cheated, I just cannot see the point of doing it. I find it to be a very nasty, senseless and a sadistic act to do to someone who loves you. My ex husband cheated on me and the emotional damage it caused me was senseless. Do you wonder why people have to do it just because it has become a trend? Why is this temptation so strong? Some of you might tell me to get a life but, cheating does not appeal to me and for that, I will always have that peace of honesty in my heart and I'm proud of it.
2007-09-14 23:01:11 · 17 answers · asked by Peace 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I totally agree with you that cheating is wrong. It seems to have become an epidemic and I just cant understand why. I saw first hand the effect of cheating in a relationship. Thats why my parents divorced. It may not seem like a big deal to the cheater at the time, but it can devastate all parties involved. If youre not ready to stay faithful in a relationship then I say keep trolling the bars and what not looking for whatever gratification you need and leave the rest of us alone.
2007-09-14 23:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by snowbirdbabe 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I agree cheating is wrong, Im one of those who have cheated, I just didnt cheat with anyone, I cheated with someone who I love and loved for years without cheating, which doesnt make it right, but sometimes it happens, you love your spouse, but you are in love with someone else. I think alot of people get married these days for the wrong reason, b/c someones pregnant or b/c they just dont have the energy to look and get hurt again, so they settle. I married b/c Id already had 2 kids by the guy and I didnt want to hurt my kids, I went through years of emotional and physical abuse with my husband and stayed b/c I knew he didnt have anyone else and If I left him, he would be alone and I didnt want that on my conscience. I grew up in a single parent home which is tough and I didnt want that for my kids. After trying to make things better for years with nothing in return, I just stop giving myself completely. Im still with my kids father, I dont cheat everyday or anything, but I dont miss an opportunity to see my true love, lifes to short, i could not see him and be thinking about him all the time, which in my book is just as bad. Dont judge so much some people you never knew what anyone has been threw. Im sure you arent perfect. Have you ever cheated on anything before, test, taxes anything?
2007-09-15 06:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I totally agree with you to always have that peace of honesty in your heart. I know this feeling. But I will try to entertain you a little . In our country ladies are used to saying , that each grey hair on your head means a lost chance. I'd rather have grey hair than cheat. Smile and stay happy .
2007-09-15 06:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by Alina M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're the exact same way as me. I don't believe in cheating as well. See the thing is, some people are either just insecure or they're not getting EVERYTHING they want out of the relationship so they cheat in order to fill that so-called "void" in their life that the relationship isn't fulfilling.
2007-09-15 06:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by Class 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so thankful for this question. My husband of 13yrs recently left me and my 3 children for another women. It caused great emontional damage and I never understood when you have something good at home why do you messed that up for a trick on the street.
2007-09-15 07:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by danaispeace 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be very proud of the fact that you are not going to be drawn into temptation at all - unfortunately many people are shallow and immature.
You kiss many frogs before you find a prince.
2007-09-15 07:50:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is.That is due to being insecure in leaving and not having a full proof relation to fall back on.they are scared of having to break up and regretting.As a man i cant even lie and say this is mostly a male problem . I think all men have a big problem with commitment and have problems with saying forever,which deals
with love.do you agree
2007-09-15 06:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by kingml213 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, your right. cheating is wrong and i dint see any point in it.if you really love someone, then why would you cheat on them. you said forever but looks like that's going to be a never lol.
2007-09-15 06:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by (Persepolis) 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really feel u cos i hate cheating too. it is becoming a socially accepted thing these days. God help us!!
2007-09-15 06:06:53 · answer #9 · answered by joddie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from the perspective of it not being a trend...
i guess sometimes circumstances... when 2 people meet, some damaging chemistry just occurs... and infidelity kicks in... its kinda complicated i guess... and alot of people get hurt in the process... we just have to accept it...
2007-09-15 06:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by Dore 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋