they are going to suffer anyway whats the point
i feel sorry for every human being that gets born to this world
i wish i was dead as well.. people are mean
the earth is poluted
p.s why do people write so many mean answers to this question like what is your problem is we have babies?
2007-09-14 18:08:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
do not say that honey.............there is a lot of love in the world, it is just hard to find
p.s.
i do not want you to die
2007-09-14 18:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kia E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're on a downer. You have to have the bad so that you appreciate the good. If life was the same all the time it would be ever so boring. You sound like you need someone to talk to. Please find a counselor, minister, teacher, neighbor-anyone. Life is actually wonderful but you have to work at it. Not all people are mean. I'm not and I have a hunch you're not. If there are two of us, there must be more. You seem pretty young and growing up is the hardest thing you will ever have to do. All your peers are young too and sometimes they are mean because they haven't learned any better. Not that that is any help when you're the butt of it all. I'm a goal oriented type of person. I make my plans and then I go for it. I chose to improve myself. You might want to try the same thing. Try to figure out a way to make your life better so that you are happier and then go for it. Just keep making those plans and going for it. I don't know what you are upset about and so I can't address that but please do something to make yourself happier with your surroundings. Life can be really good and it will get better.
2007-09-15 01:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by towanda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, my ex-husband's mother told me, when I brought my son up to see her for the first time as an infant, that down in Louisiana they always cry when a baby is born because you're born into a life of trouble and pain and are happy when you die because you are going to a better life. That made a big impression on me at the time and it kind of makes on think....so in some ways you're right. This world is messed up and there are alot of mean people out there....BUT not everyone is mean.
I had my son 18 years ago this Sunday and when I chose to get pregnant it was because I wanted to have a child with my husband (he's no longer my husband and no longer alive) and because I felt I could raise a child to be a good person and actually give him (or her because at that time I didn't know I would have a son) a better life than I had. I'm a firm believer in giving back to your community through volunteering and my career is in the environmental field, so my son was raised to take part in those sort of things and take pride in his world, not to pollute, be an individual, make his own decisions, and try to make his community a better place to live.
I think I've done a pretty good job. He graduated high school in May and started at the local 2-yr college in Aug, taking his general education classes. He's a regular blood doner and volunteers at the Red Cross when we need help with Disaster Shelters. He's a lifeguard at the City Pool and is starting the Drama Club back up at his college, in addition to helping with his old high school drama club. He doesn't drink, do drugs or have sex......all by his own choice because he doesn't think that he wants to or that he is really ready for that right now, and he doesn't like what he's seen from his friends that have done those things.
I think my choice to have a baby and raise him to be a good person, a productive adult and an idividual in his own right was the right choice for me.
2007-09-15 01:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jenyfer J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because through suffering comes enlightenment and a resolve to make a difference in the world.
the world really is becoming a better place believe it or not. through technology we well become more than we are and that the world suffers in the present it is for the benefit of the future.
p.s. on the mean answers I can guess... rephrased your questions is "why were you even born?" you can't feel sorry for people and expect them to like you. heh.
2007-09-15 01:15:11 · answer #4 · answered by disruption_grey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do understand not wanting to bring a baby into this world. I also understand in that I sometimes feel like this struggle called life was forced onto me. But, its the way it is and I am trying to make it as good for myself as I can.
2007-09-15 02:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r seriously negative my dear. dun see babies being born as suffering. they are such joy and they should see the beauty of this world. i wont say entirely beautiful but one shouldnt focus on all the depressing things in life.
what happened to u? why do u wish u were dead? who are mean to u? come email me.
2007-09-15 01:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by miss understand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think you'll be better off in the next "life"? Who knows? Maybe this one is an opportunity for you to decide which "next stage" you go to.
2007-09-15 01:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by ring 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the exact same way! I want to die!
2007-09-15 01:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Watch this...i used to feel like you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_b1GKGWJbE8
Its not religious or preachy. Please watch it and email me and let me know what u thought
2007-09-15 01:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by TheDeeds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please go see a counselor, I'm sorry you feel negative.
2007-09-15 01:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋