During a survey taken from different countries in all metro cities about the SEX experiences of the present days boys and girls (-less than 18 years of age-), the officials were taken a back to find the result that nearly 50 % of them had already experienced the SEX with somebody . One more survey result revealed the news that those boys or girls (- 40% percent- )they do not use any condems for protecting for a healthy sex. Is not shocking. I expect only those boys and girls should answer my following question. What happened to your FAMILY ORIENTED VALUES or MORALS or GOOD BEHAVIOUR , Please answer me.
2007-09-14 17:14:15 · 11 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
lack of moral education
2007-09-15 06:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by ki kiss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr rvr which moral values are u talking about. First of all this survey was conducted in western countries. Your and mine moral thoughts do not count there at all.
Even in India the times have changed and the younger generation does not want to live under the systems we used to live.
last but not the least having/indulging in sex has nothing to do with good/bad behaviour, if u dont mind.
I am not a young man objecting/criticising your question, i have also crossed 60 decades of my life in Indian and Abroad. I am just giving my opionion. dont take it otherwise.
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2007-09-14 17:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by chit 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately not all children in fact a very large percentage of children are not raised in homes with "Family Oriented Values or Morals" so they have nothing to compare it to. In this age of the divorce rate being so high, not saying because you are divorced you have no morals for that is not true, but it is frightening to go through a high school and see and hear what the kids are talking about, wearing bracelets which shows if the girl has gone all the way, or to 2nd or third base, whats that all about..I see a lost generation in so many way and believe me I am very liberal but not when it comes to things like this , it scares me to death. NO condoms, AIDS,STDs etc...allot of parents also do not want education in the schools..It seems they go from one extreme or the other. I have seen more kids/young adults so confused for things that they have already done and can't undo and they come from all walks of life. I guess my point is, Children live what they learn and unfortunately many are learning their "values","morals" from their peers instead of their parents, divorced, married, adopted, gay parents ,straight parents, pastors kids...it does not seem to matter..What is the answer...if kids are going to learn from their peers maybe more of their peers that believe in abstinance and values need to step up and voice their opinion in a non threatening, non judgemental way....
Mother of two adult children, two grandchildren...
2007-09-22 14:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by magnolia813 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya...In todays fast paced Life. young ppl dont much care about the after effects until its too late..They realize the mistake very late after a bitter exp. Some do so just to be alike among a group of friends..But its bad..We must treasure our traditional and moral values , since we represent a democracy and have vary many cultures....
There needs to be much awareness amon t youth of today and must be educated so during school n college...
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2007-09-14 18:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sridhar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the percntage is higher as in indian villages which forms 65%of our population the marriage done at the age of 15 or less,its important to take responsibility of the action with mutual consent and love for each other rather than feeling low.love is pure and should be encouraged
2007-09-19 04:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yet yet one extra reason faith is a ludicrous theory. hear, my lady chum has been with 5 different adult adult males and it does not exchange something. in fact, in section through fact of those 5 adult adult males, she is the guy she is now. Does it count to me if she had intercourse with them if she enjoyed them or no longer, no through fact this is not any longer my previous, this is hers. I purely choose her to be my contemporary and destiny. additionally, what share human beings I even have been with and the situations should additionally be an common fact and not a judgment, purely like it extremely is for her. It does not develop of decrease what i've got self belief for her. this is part of who i'm. particular, boyfriend/lady chum relationships can smash up, yet so can marriages. that may no longer a good sufficient reason and to think of that everybody could look ahead to marriage so extra human beings get married, there is not any experience in that.
2016-10-08 21:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because it is culturally inappropriate in your country, doesn't mean it is inappropriate in another country. It is inappropriate to try to see other cultures through your own values and beliefs, as other cultures can be far more different than you realise - even other western cultures can be quite different from each other.
2007-09-18 23:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by SamToucan41 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT is due to having distance from religion.No religion allows this bad practise before marriage.Religion can be only resistance among opposite young sexes.
2007-09-14 18:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by jaidi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a part of life.
Do values cause heavy breathing and a rapid heartbeat?
2007-09-22 16:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by smkeller 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if both r agree then there is no qtn of good behaviour or family o vals
2007-09-14 17:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by upkar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋