i feel like i do, and have been thinking about it.
My love does not love me back, i have been waiting for him for so long but he does not come to me, even talk to me, even ask me how i am. After our love affair, he is acting different.
I love him too deeply, noone will love him as much as i do, i think about him day and night, i pray to forget about him, i pray for him to love me, but i failed. I just want to end my heartache.
What should i do?
2007-09-14 17:01:53 · 16 answers · asked by FREDDY 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Freddy i really worry for you
my mother died a few years ago it was the worst time in my life with a funeral, family members fighting over money , and at no time did i want to kill myself, i think you have major issues all because of a broken heart, i say this as a friend but enough all ready ok, how would you cope with real problems like death of a family member and health issues, I'm in a marriage that looks like going down the toilet, everybody has problem so a guy broke your heart, Freddy its time to grow up and act your age, if you don't like my answer then sorry but gee take this from a Friend but GEEEZZZZZ enough already
2007-09-15 11:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I tried to kill myself four years ago. A love affair gone awry motivated me, as did other problems I was going through at the time. I really loved this individual, but now, I am over him, and he is married. So, what is the lesson here? Time heals all wounds. Trust me on this. I don't know you, I don't know how old you are, or the details of your relationship with this man, but I do know that most often than not, there is life after a breakup. So keep your head up, and talk to someone ASAP. During this time you may not be thinking straight and may do something you might regret later. So go and talk to a good friend.
Take care.
2007-09-14 18:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by Bunny Boiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Numerous times in my life. Depression runs in my family and I was diagnosed a few years ago. I was able to work through it with out going on meds. I'm considering going back into therapy because life has thrown me a curve and I'm not sure how to handle it. My faith gets me through a lot.
We have something in comon. I also am in love with someone. I know that he loves me but not the way that I need or deserve to be loved. And it hurts so much. I was just talking to a friend and told her that I wish that I didn't care about people so much so that when they act stupid I don't care. But sweetie trust me when I say that he's not worth it... death is permanent. Suicide is a lie from hell!!! You can get through this.....Life is always changing. I know about heartache as well...like I said I'm feeling the way that you are if you want email me and we can share stories somemore. Or send me an instant message. But this is not the way to go. I will pray for you. I pray that you are delivered from this pain and that God embraces you. May you feel God's love which is the best love. It's unconditional love. But please contact me. I'll talk to you....there are other ways.
2007-09-14 17:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by Who is that red head??? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have been that low before, but for other reasons. What should you do? One thing: LOVE YOURSELF A LITTLE MORE. Don't allow someone else's actions to dictate how you should feel or how you should live your life. Be responsible for how you feel and take steps that will help you feel better about who you are. Feeling that bad ties into the belief that things are out of your control. If you let your feelings be dictated by someone else's actions, they will ALWAYS feel out of control. Maybe it's time to move on. There is someone out there who will truly love you. Don't you want to be there when he shows up?
2007-09-14 17:21:09 · answer #4 · answered by Rikki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tried to kill myself 12 years ago because of a broken heart. I drank an entire bottle of tequila, 6 beers, smoked heavily, & swallowed a lot of pain killers. I was unconcious for 3 days. My family thought I was done for but luckily I survived. Think before you act. It might cause you more pain than you bargained for. I'm now paying with a weak heart and lungs.
2007-09-14 17:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by Buddy Hodor 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Once, when I was about 14 didn't try though. I decided that no one was going to get the better of me, never thought about it since.
Your worth more than you think sweetie, he might not love you but I grantee that there are people out there that do. *♥*
2007-09-14 17:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes but I always told myself no man is worth ending my life for. Just keep yourself busy so you don't think about him as much.
2007-09-14 17:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by Death Girl Am 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please realize you are important! Right now you are hurt, confused and maybe angry, but no one else on earth can truly make you happy---you have to be happy with yourself first. Time will make things easier. Talk to close friend, really a counselor my help at this time. Best to You!!!
2007-09-14 17:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by michelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but not over any relationship. If he doesn't love you back you have to move on. It's not worth dying.
2007-09-14 17:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by Nico 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger. I have too much to live for now. I was too chicken to do it myself. Hope things get better for you, if your serious. If not ok.
2007-09-14 17:07:42 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ HeNnEsSy ™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋