I'm a healthy, normal 14 year old boy (who has A.D.D. but not that bad) starting high school but lately I've noticed that I masturbate too much. I masturbate once every two days or every day and I've been doing this since the middle of last year and a lot this summer. Sometimes when I'm home alone I watch porn. Is there any way to stop? because I want this to stop so it won't get out of hand when I'm older. Is there any way?
2007-09-14 15:37:35 · 17 answers · asked by Stevvvven 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
You can't masturbate too much. Your body won't let you. Once a day is EXTREMELY normal for a 14-year-old. Your body is waking up, and getting acquainted with your brain. You've discovered something that feels good, so naturally you do it again. It's not interfering with your life, you're doing plenty of other things. I imagine you did it a lot during the summer because you had time on your hands. Back in school there will be other things to keep you occupied. I guarantee it won't get out of hand when you get older. The urge will diminish when it's not so new, when you don't have hormones rushing through your system, and when your natural energy level is lower.
Masturbation is a good, clean way to get in touch with your body and train your sexual response. Practice delaying your climax. When you have sex with someone else (hopefully a long time from now) you will want to be able to control your response and not "pop" right away.
2007-09-14 16:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
First what you are doing is normal.
Try taking cold showers when you get the urge. If you get involved with sports or school activities you won't have time to masturbate all the time. You will be too tired or just too busy.
2007-09-15 15:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by Racer20 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 14 and i masturbate 11-13 times a week. i cant go a day without that awesome sensation. Cant believe u think 1 a day is bad.
2007-09-14 17:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You spend to much time by yourself.Go out with friends,play sports,find a girlfriend.These are ways to take your mind off of it.It should slow down the urges but really you have nothing to worry about just try to live in the real world stop fantasizing so much.
2007-09-14 15:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by pete63daddy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all it's quite normal!!! I used to do it a lot when I was at the same age like you. It's the nature of humans... But if you wanna do it less then just find something to be busy with! If you focus to other things and keep yourself busy then you wont need it that much ;-)!!!
2007-09-14 22:25:30 · answer #5 · answered by white crow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, dont worry, once every 1-2 days is not bad, sometimes i even do it 3 times a day...
2007-09-15 13:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by Zidane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes theres away...Start dating a girl & have fun going out. Otherwise get a hobby.
2007-09-14 18:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by Digital One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get up to four a day then you can brag but for now your still a light weight!
2007-09-14 15:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by stevemxusa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha that's funny that you say that.
its perfectly normal trust me ima 14 year old girl and my boyfriend is 17 and before we started going out he masterbeted like everyday!
2007-09-14 15:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal. If you start painting lips on your fingers or putting a wig on your hand, then we may have a problem. I beat my meat like it owes me money.
2007-09-14 16:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by ben d 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋