and she really was hurt and when she cried I kicked her even more cause I thought she was cheating on me but turns out she really was working she showed me the surveillance video from her work and she left me... she didn't say where she went I just hope she is okay.. she didn't kill herself... she was over the edge when she left
now I feel soooooooooooo guilty and ashamed and worried and miss her sooo much I don't want to live without her... I called her mom to see if she been at her place her mom told me not to ever call her again... and it sound like she has made contact with her mom or even she is there right now... I miss her soo much and I will do whatever to win her back please tell me what should I do to make her happy...
P.S. when she left I wasn’t allowing her to leave but she has promised me that I will always be the man of her life so I am not worried that she will find someone else
2007-09-14 13:56:45 · 3 answers · asked by RICK 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I know I was wrong for kicking her but I just couldn’t control myself to watch a woman who I thought a cheater and a whore to give me attitude... but I found out she was only working and what hurts me is that she tells her female coworker about me and shows her my picture maybe god hates me to put me in this situation but I really am a good person
2007-09-14 13:57:03 · update #1
I say this sincerely. You need professional psychological help. You have had a meltdown. You ARE a good person deep down, but you have lost your ability to control your emotions and perhaps even your thoughts. You're in bad shape. If you don't find help, it won't matter that you're a good person or not, because society will be forced to see you as a bad one.
There never is or was or will be an excuse to physically abuse another person the way you did. I don't care if she really DID cheat, or if she did it multiple times, or if she did it while you were forced to watch. There is no excuse whatsoever.
If you cannot control your rage, let alone your suspicion and distrust, you should not be with her or anyone else.
If you care about her, you will do NOTHING to try to win her back until you spend at least a year getting help for yourself.
When you are calm, when you are able to know that she has begun dating someone else and you can handle that, and when you are able to conceive of the thought of living without her...
...then I will believe that you have a chance at being back with her.
2007-09-14 14:05:22 · answer #1 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing you can do is move on with your life - hopefully she has moved on as has the sense not to deal with you again. And you can maybe get some help for your problems, cos you clearly have some.
I appreciate that you are sorry for what you did, and it must have taken some guts to post on here, but all my sympathies are with her, i cant muster any for you, sorry
2007-09-14 21:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank god she left you. I hope you cry for all eternity
2007-09-14 21:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by Danu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋