especially with things she knows you do in excess,what does that mean?What if you two have had problems in the past?Why would she act this way towards you?
2007-09-14 13:41:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
All it is is a phrase of kindness. I mean, she may genuinely care for your well being, but it doesn't mean anything more than that. Everyone says it to everyone every day. There is no secret message in that.
2007-09-16 14:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
She cares about you, despite your differences in the past. She is concerned because she believes there is a risk you will come to harm. Simple as that. You already know you do something in excess, respond to the kind words by reducing the risk to as close to zero as possible. And see how much happier she is that you would do this for her :)
2007-09-14 21:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Moonshadow Dancer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she doesn't want you to hurt yourself. She's showing that she cares what happens to you, and she might simply do that because she's a good person. Having "problems in the past" doesn't necessarily have any bearing on her not wanting you to get hurt doing something to "excess."
2007-09-14 20:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It means that she doesn't like the fact that you drink too much, take too many drugs, work out to much, or whatever it is that you do too much of and doesn't want you to end up dead or coming to harm.
If you've had problems in the past, she either cares because she's a decent person or she is indifferent and is saying 'do what you want'.
2007-09-14 20:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sparklepop 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
she is telling you to be careful think before you act she may be concerned your going to do some thing you have done in the past that didn't work out for you or hurt you, she may even mean don't do it.
2007-09-14 20:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I'm a girl and if i would say that to someone, that means i like that persona. She still probably like you what ever the past problem was...( sorry, but why are guys soooo clueless?)
2007-09-14 20:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by ひみつ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1) She doesn't want you to get hurt.
2) She doesn't want you to hurt her.
It's all about feelings of comfort and stability!
2007-09-14 20:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah ♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is showing concern for you .. isnt that the obvious thing to think ???
then its ... just be carefull ... as a warning maybe .. that problems coud return ?
2007-09-14 20:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by ξήĢŁĭŞĦ ŗǾşξ ©® ღஐღ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
shes trying to tell you :
"stop being dumb. what you are doing is dangerous/unhealthy and its scaring me. I like you and kinda want you around. dont make me feel like a fool for liking you."
2007-09-14 20:52:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
its like reverse psychology ex: don't look down and of course u are looking down. simple
2007-09-15 08:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by Vulfy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋