Empty Rooms Where we learn to live without love Loneliness is my only friend. A broken heart that just won't mend Is the price you pay. ... Do you think that the person who is saying this chooses not to mend their heart????
2007-09-14 11:29:24 · 10 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
When someone has to say good-bye or they are told good-bye its over, they can not for a time understand why then it is the pain is still, the images of the love, in this a she, still are so realy they can not seem to function. So it is with loniness for awhile....it sometimes is best to just go through it, not force the getting through, but to feel the pain, and deal with it in your own time. And then, you will come out on the other side having learned what it is you need to learn about love, loss and pain. Song is below......
EMPTY ROOMS (Gary Moore)
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Loneliness is your only friend
A broken heart that just won't mend is the price you pay.
It's hard to take when love grows old,
The days are long and the nights turn cold when it fades away.
(Bridge)
You hope
that she will change her mind
But the days drift on and on
You'll never know the reason why - she's gone.
(Guitar)
You see her face in every crowd,
You hear her voice but you're still proud so you turn away.
You tell yourself that you will be strong,
But your heart tells you - this time you're wrong.
(Bridge)
You hope that she will change her mind
But the days drift on and on
You'll never know the reason why - she's gone.
(Chorus)
Empty rooms - where we learn to live without love
Empty rooms - wh
ere we learn to live without love
Empty rooms - where we learn to live without love
2007-09-14 15:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by kickinupfunf 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The heart's normal state is to be either broken or in the middle of healing. The whole heart comes in moments of grace and recognition of grace.
There is an old saying that if you have misery, at least it is something you can claim as your own, and embrace as an old friend, that no one can take from you without your consent.
I think the writer is having a comfortable time with the exploration of their particular misery, rather than seeking a mending. It's one of the things we do. We can get over it.
2007-09-14 12:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Palmerpath 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I do not think we have the ability to mend a broken heart. Therefore, this is not a choice. Time mends broken hearts. Since we dont have the ability to manipulate time, we cant do the mending. We can fool ourselves and others by rationalizing that the breaker of the heart wasn't worth it anyway, but it really doesnt mend, it only allows the broken hearted to cope until time does its medicinal deed.
2007-09-14 11:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by crocolyle10 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I do not think the person who is saying this, is not saying that she chooses not to mend her Heart. What it means is that she longs for someone to show her Love, which she never had.
2007-09-14 14:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the person saying this is choosing to ignore the choices they have. Certainly when a broken heart hurts your spirit, you experience the armagedon of an emotional world you took for granted. Like all things that burn and die, there has never been a battle were nothing survives. If we learn to live without love, we can also learn to live with love and the best place to start is with the self. Love of ones self brings love for all else. We always have choices, we may not like the options that face us. So I would have to say, yes this person has accepted were they are at and has chosen to remain there for now.
2007-09-14 22:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by finn mchuil 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Losing someone you loved like no one else is just like losing everything you have. You get stuck in a cold void bracing only what's left - the memories and the pains that come with remembering. For all the love you've given, you've been returned nothing except a broken heart;..And with this alone you have to go on.
2007-09-14 15:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rena , I,have spent many years alone ,lost in the wilderness.Unreachable and unapproachable,A true mess of emotions, and my mind scrabbled in a maze.No aim no purpose.Cloaked in darkness,And heartache so painful, I really thought i could die with the heavy stress.But since the bitter loss and the guilt i felt the whole entire time.This was our i was then ,when it was raw and fresh.But since this time,It seems like many years have passed, now I feel more numb,The ache has lessened somewhat.I look at my two experiences with love ,separately now,Not really connected in the same way.It is like two different me,s,One inner self segmented into another one,And with my recent problems,I have started to step out of myself once more.Like a built in device of inner healing.The process as began.
2007-09-14 12:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's about as painful as it gets. I think that person not only has lost love, but also is afraid of himself. It's so lonely and painful, because he's tired of his only companion, which is himself. That is also why his heart won't mend, because for now he needs someone else.
2007-09-14 13:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by the Boss 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, but the writer is noting the futility of making repair jobs
without the proper repair equipment. In this case, only time
or possibly new or love returned can achieve it. Hearts
repaired always leave the scars though.
2007-09-14 11:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-26 11:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋