I am an ex-model who sacrificed a life to work in acting/modeling for a life in helping others because my heart led me to work in not-for-profit. I am 27, no kids, and have a degree with my own place, nice car, and savings. However, I can not find decent men for the life of me to date. I'm not all about money, but just trying to find a hard worker who is as motivated and self-sufficient as me. I am tired of paying for their dinners in the relationship or reminding them they ahve unpaid bills while in long-term relationships. It seems every guy I date can't find a job, lost his job, or is a security guard. What is with this?
2007-09-14 10:34:40 · 8 answers · asked by Wonder Woman 4 in Politics & Government ➔ Government
i have nothing against security guards except the fact they make little above minumum wage and sit on their butts. atleast this is what my ex did in his previous two security jobs. i am sure others are def more respectable.
2007-09-14 17:05:31 · update #1
Sounds like you're looking in the wrong places. You didn't provide much information, but if those are the only guys you are meeting it stands to reason your looking where those guys are.
You might try joining some civic or volunteer organizations - that's where a lot of us successful, compassionate guys hang out!
If nothing else you'll contribute something to society.
2007-09-14 10:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by Elmer R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Out of curiosity what do you have against security guards? Or for that matter any labor oriented employment. There is nothing wrong with doing honest hard work for a living. They are people to, who don't derserve to be looked down upon because of their vocation.
As for finding a successful men, you apparently do not attract them, or there are very few left. Whichever you want to believe.
2007-09-14 17:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Cysteine 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your looking in the wrong places this is a big world and not everyone is gonna be according to your standards. Those security guards might be happy with their place and consider themselves succesful heaven forbid they dont make alot of cash to make you happy.
2007-09-15 00:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by SS4 Elby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you haven't run into the hard facts of the results of Women's Lib.
Women have always been the more responsible sex.
Prior to women's lib, men were forced to act responsibly to support a family.
Now, they no longer need to do that.
Sorry, but it is only going to become a more common problem unless we reverse the trend.
2007-09-14 17:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Philip H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend is an ex marine and a security guard. don't knock them. at least he has a job!!
go on a dating site like eharmony and see what you come up with.
you sound like you have yourself together.
maybe you shouldn't let the men become dependant on you to pay the bills and they will keep making their own and be self motivated to provide
2007-09-14 17:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by nataliexoxo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try looking for men in different places than you have been. Don't pick 'em up at bars. Try the gym instead, or church, or at one of the conferences your charity may attend. Good luck!
2007-09-14 17:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Beardog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look on Hannidate at hannity.com
2007-09-14 17:49:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so many requirement for a partener.I am wondering where you are
2007-09-14 20:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋