Spotting, 13 weeks pregnant, and extreemely stressed out?

Question

The night before last, I woke up about 1:30 am to use the bathroom, but when I wiped, there was blood on the tissue, It didn't last long, only one time when I used the restroom, and there were no cramps, but it still scared me, because I am really stressed out over my husband lying to me about looking at porn, what harm can spotting do to the baby? And should I take it as a sign of a future miscarrage? How do I keep from stressing so bad, when all I do is dwell on the fact that 1) my husband looks at porn, 2) he lies about it, and hides it. What causes spotting? And should I be worried?

Answer 1

FIRST... stop stressing... stress is the WORST thing for you and your child... mild spotting can happen... that happened with my 1st pregnancy... if you're that concerned, then, contact your doc's office & let them know of your concern... also, www.webmd.com has information you can look up on in the future... it'll give you the symtoms to look for & just about everything...
i've listed the link to webmd.com for information on miscarriage... copy & paste..
as for your husband... talk to him... let him know how much it bothers you... you need to reduce your stress....
hope this will help.....

Answer 2

Some pregnant women do spot while pregnant and thats normal. But if you are really worried that it might be a miscarriage which there is a good chance that it can be a miscarriage go to the hospital or call your doctor because stress is bad for your unborn child I had 4 miscarriages due to stress. My first 1 I had no bleeding or cramping at all. And the other 3 I had a little bit of spotting but had no cramping. So just to be safe call your doctor.

Answer 3

More than likely due to stress. Spotting is a symptom of misscarriage but is also a sign of a healthy pregnancy with a little stress. Just relax.

And remember porn isn't that bad. But have a talk with him about how it make you feel (unappreaciated, sad, unattractive) Husbands who look at porn while there wives are preggnant often cause these feelings in her. Talk to him about how you feel.

Or do what my wife did, told me she didn't mind, tok me to the adult store and tried to pick some out for me with me. ruined the whole mood,lol.

Just live, laugh and love, and everything will go fine.

Answer 4

well let me tell you from my past experience i was PG and i was really stressed out it happened in the moment of my life i wasnt ready my parents were on my case..i was screaming alot...crying...and i wasnt sleeping well...and when you do that the baby can feell what you feel its like pressure...you have to relax you have to just let things flow....when you get upset think about you and your baby...take deep breathes...and your husband looking a porn yeah i know it sucks but he is a man at least he isnt cheating on you...but yeah back to my experience...i didnt relax i ended up losing the baby...dont think negative just relax and talk to your baby...
blessings your way...
you should see the doctor make them do a blood test to see if the baby's HGC is doubling or not...if its dropping im sorry there is a chance for miscarriage...

Answer 5

Spotting can be a sign of miscarriage; however, the majority of miscarriages include severe cramping and more than just spotting (usually a lot of vaginal bleeding). If you are worried, call the doctor and let him/her know what is going on and if you can come in to get checked out.
Many men can be embarassed about looking at pornography or think their girlfriend/wife may get angry if they do so they think it's best just to lie about it. I highly doubt he is doing it to hurt you- he probably just doesn't want you upset about it and you know lots of men think it's better to lie or deny it than causing their girlfriend/wife stress. I wouldn't worry about it unless it is effecting your sex life or relationships.
Learn a few breathing techniques to help you calm down- just breathe in slowly and release out slowly.

Answer 6

well hunny to be safe please get a doctor to look at you. I had bleeding at the end well 31 weeks and i had her that night. So what i would do is just make sure everything is ok with you and the baby just call the doctor and mention it say that your nervous and you want to be checked out. Good luck i am sure it's nothing but i am always worring till i know.

Answer 7

you should def contact your dr.. and honestly dont get stressed about it.. men love porn! and the fact that he is hiding it from yuo can be that he might not want to hurt your feelings in letting you knw he is watching ..porn..woman..etc.. that can be the reason.. but ask him and dont confront him just ask him.. and make sure he knw he can do it .. is not a bad thing.. if you dont mind then volunteer to watch it with him.. so he can feel better and be more open about it.. good luck

Answer 8

I would call your doctor and let them know whats going and see if you can come in just to get checked out, to make sure everything is okay. as far as the husband, not really sure what to do about that, maybe talk to him and tell him if he wants to look at it thats one thing but dont try to hide it. i hope everything works out for you. good luck

Answer 9

well first off stress is a good way to have a misscairage.....2 you need to realize that your husband goes to bed with you not the girls in the porn......as long as it does not lessen his attention to you it may be a good idea to losen your stance here and try to relax your hold on him. he loves you take comfort in that. if the spoting did not continue then you are gonna be ok. good luck.

Answer 10

This may or may not be due to stress. No one can diagnose you at a distance. Please see your obstetrician as soon as possible. When you call, tell the office it's an emergency. That should get you in immediately.