I met this girl. She was pretty cute but i wasn't trying to start a relationship with her romantically. I knew she already had a bf anyway. I just needed some friends to hang out with seeing as how imnew to this college. Well her bf lives back in her home city. So they basically have a phone/email relationship right now. And I know this isn't cutting it for her becuase she keeps asking me to come over or have lunch with her becuase she needs a guy to talk to. She is starting to get attached to me and i don't wanna come between her and her bf. I tried giving her some space to ya know make some more friends but she is very shy so she is having a hard time at that. I dont wanna leave her completely because she will be all alone( she's an introvert). So what can i do to keep from gettin in a love triangle. I mean i lik her as a friend but im not trying to date or have sex with her. Strictly platonic.
2007-09-14 09:24:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Just be her friend. It is hard to not be attracted to someone of the opposite sex. Especially with one that you are close to. Be a friend to her. Talk to her and explain to her exactly how you feel. If you don't want to come between her and her boyfriend, then you need to tell her that you are only available if and when they break up. It hurts to be third wheel...so please don't put yourself through this!
2007-09-14 09:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
so just act in a platonic fashion when you are around her, also make some more friends of your own and spend time with them, she needs to learn to make more friends, and watching you do it might give her the idea.
2007-09-14 09:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that. Maybe she really doesn't want to be with her boyfriend and she is starting to be intrested in you. Best way to figure this out is to talk to her.
2007-09-14 09:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by mlsaj84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like her more than a friend then im sure she feels the same way, and if she does have more feelings for you than there's nothing you can do.
2007-09-14 10:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋