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what kind of qualities does it take for a young adult 20+ female to live alone? take in mine its a safe area and they can afford it.

2007-09-14 08:53:05 · 17 answers · asked by lovely 3 in Society & Culture Other - Society & Culture

17 answers

independance, positiveness, creativeness, neatness.

2007-09-14 08:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

A hobby is good! Confidence is good. And having an evening or two that one can play games, or hang out with friends is helpful. I had to take up a hobby after my divorce, unfortunately it was working way too much. So make sure one has something to do when one is bored or lonely. That something, in my opinion should be something one enjoys, like reading, taking a walk, movies, chatting online, or painting, drawing. You get the idea.
Creativity and confidence is the best qualities! Oh, and a telephone helps too! LOL

2007-09-14 23:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by LilbitFiery:) 3 · 0 0

Obviously they have to know how to take care of themselves (housework, laundry,cooking,finances etc) and the ability entertain yourself. When you're young and you live alone, you can listen to whatever music you want. You can watch tv or not. You can have all kinds of hobbies and there will be no one to mess them up or put them aside. You can go to bed whenever you want and get up in the middle of the night and watch that program from earlier in the day. You can run around in the most casual of clothes and maybe not even brush your hair. You can sit and talk on the phone all you like, because there will be no one else to tell you to get off that phone. Take all precautions to keep yourself safe and ENJOY.

2007-09-14 16:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by phlada64 6 · 1 0

Responsibility responsibility responsibility... Be alert to your surroundings. Know your neighbors and who you can go to if need be. Basic things you have learned growing up but now you have to put them to use. Living alone can be a big step for some people.

Good luck!

2007-09-14 15:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by Pat 5 · 1 0

First of course be able to afford it and not only right now but also have some savings for the dark hour.
Second, she has to be self sufficient and independent.
I think once you have those qualities you will be good to go

2007-09-14 15:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by Malgorzata B 4 · 1 0

I think it's better at that age to live with people the same age. There may be a chance to get a job with staff accom or else, go into dorm housing, if she is in college. I think those options are good if nothing else is available. Perhaps she has friends who want to move out with her or let her live with them. I lived with a friend of mine and it effectively ended our friendship. Two weeks with her meant that I had to take care of her kid when she wanted me to as if I were the parent, and being 'special' because she is a single parent, that means I owe it to her to take care of her son, or something like that, instead of going to her parents or the father of the kid. She was banging him for money while banging her new boyfriend who supported her, cheating welfare by lying about her business, her parent's financial support, trust fund, her new boyfriend who offered her free food, drugs and clothes, etc. She even milked some of her friends for clothes, toys and other stuff and was entitled to half of all the income of her fiancee, whom she lived with for two years. I hate it when people claim that single mothers are victims. If she had been seventeen, I would have sympathized. She was twenty-four at the time.

2007-09-14 16:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

She just needs to be responsible and able to take care of herself and at 20 she should be ready...
i mean can she
cook for herslf
clean for herself
and get the places he needs to go by herself
and most important is she responsible enough to pay her bills on time!

2007-09-14 15:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by VegasBabe1 1 · 2 0

Independent personality.

2007-09-14 15:56:51 · answer #8 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 0 0

Hobbies that can be done in solitude
An active and independent mind that doesn't need other people to stay stimulated
Being relatively sane. Being alone too much can exacerbate mental illness.

2007-09-14 16:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 0 1

One who doesn't freak out on the slightest noise!
Wouldn't hurt to own a 45 either!

2007-09-14 15:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2 0

Independence, self-reliability, maturity, hard-work.

2007-09-14 15:57:42 · answer #11 · answered by Argo 3 · 1 0

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