ok will this girl, she's one of my 'friends' (like she hangs out in my group) well she's a ***** to my boyfriend all the time! she says mean things about him, calls him an retard, snaps at him all the time and has even kicked him a couple times!
the other day everyone was messing and he barely knocked into her. she kicked him full force in the leg and started screaming at him. i was like wtf?! so she started screaming at me.
later (after a couple cans) she appologised to me but i don't fell like forgiving her... i told her she needed to say sorry to him not me. but now she's playing the guilt trip on me...should i forgive her?
2007-09-14 08:23:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ok she's not trying to 'steal him' she's with someone else and bsides she knows he hates her..
2007-09-14 08:40:02 · update #1
ok, wow. you need to grow up
2007-09-14 08:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by ...... 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's the one who needs to develop a backbone here- how old are you people? If he tells her not too subtly to back off, she'll stop. He's the one who needs to forgive (or not)- but I still say he needs to be forceful in putting an end to the abuse.
Then you can put her bad behavior behind you and just move forward.
2007-09-14 15:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah forgive her. What she did was wrong and immature but you need to be the bigger person in the end. If you don't forgive her now things will only get worse later.
2007-09-14 15:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by beanie baby 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
always forgive people!!!
ur life is too short to have enemies
make the best out of ur life!!
i know i didnt and now i am 17 and pregnant and the dad wants nothing to do with it and i didnt forgive one of my very good friends for bitching at her one time, and now, well we dont talk and its the WORST feeling...so forgive her!!
2007-09-14 17:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know sometime is hard for us to forgive some people..We have to try forgive other all we can in this life, if that person feel sorry and ask for applogised but we don`t forgive her, we will be guilty...Good Luck to you...
2007-09-14 15:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by TRey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should forgive her. What does it benefit for you to hold a grudge? If she continues to act childish, tell her that you can't hang around her anymore. There isn't any reason for you yourself to act childish.
2007-09-14 15:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by not too creative 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive her and be aware she might have a special interest in the male you mentioned.
2007-09-14 15:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by Robert V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her.
I mean you can just talk to her when you have to.
Dont be friends with someone like that.
2007-09-14 15:44:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a bit of a looser to me.Forget her.
2007-09-14 15:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kαtydid ★ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she sounds like someone you have to make it clear that you aren't gonna put up with anything.
2007-09-14 16:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she didn't really mean it when she apologized to you. maybe she likes your boyfriend and she's trying to trick you and steal him from you.
2007-09-14 15:37:19 · answer #11 · answered by γσυ мєαи єህєяγтнìиɠ тσ sσмєσиє❤ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋