What would you do if you caught your husband or wife cheating with someone else?

Question

It was in your bedroom.

And you had 1 to 5 children with this person.

If it was me, I would be heaven bound. I would just keep walking forward with a smile on my face. Because it would be time. I would just get in my car start it up, go to a bridge. Then jump off a bridge, either onto the railroad tracks, or onto the river. I will be in heaven finally. I am so serious. I am very serious.

What would you do?

That is exactly what I do if my wife cheats on me.

I just don't think life should be lived anymore if that happened. I don't want my wife not to cheat on me at all.

Answer 1

Surely not that. They did the act not you, let them suffer. What about the love for the children? Just move on with life, bad things happen to everyone. It isn't worth dying over.

Answer 2

Guess we’d turn around and walk away. Wouldn’t want to see it any more. Hopefully they wouldn’t have noticed me, but if we had to we would out run them to get away. Would go out side into the cool night air. Would walk and think and think and walk and not think and walk and and and…… Really hard to say what we would do next, could be something stupid, could be nothing, likely want to go back for the kids at some point, maybe sooner… no we wouldn’t want to face that cheating…. Yarhhhh. Probably call my lawyer, or start going about getting one. Yah we would want to fight for the kids. Wouldn’t want somebody we can’t trust looking after them. Would probably forget about self for while too painful to think about and live for kids for while, would want to do every thing in power to help them.

Likes to think we are a better judge of character then that so this would never happen to us but….. never is a long long time, and we have a hard time not giving them the benefit of the doubt especially when they ask nicely.

Answer 3

First, he is in the military so I would discredit him to all his soldiers' wives, aka my friends.

Second, I would take the kids, squeeze out as much child support as I could, but still give him visitation rights for the benefit of the kids. Plus I would do all my trash-talking to my mom, not my kids.

Third, I would set aside 15 minutes per day to scream and cry in private for about 100 days.

Lastly, I guess I would seek to spend time with a more mature man, preferably divorced and also with kids, so we could start a new life together. And he would have a 9-5 job, none of these deployments and trainings and days in the field that military wives have to put up with.

But I know my man wouldn't do that. This is definitely hypothetical, but I'm not so stupid to think that he couldn't do it. And that's my plan if he does cheat.

Answer 4

Hmmm.. that is tough. The situation has so many variables to consider.

Cheating is the ultimate let down and forgiveness is extremley difficult. I would talk to her.. it depends on how willing she is to seek your forgiveness vs. whether she just doesn't care.. Then ask myself if she the kind of person who would do it again..

Kids are tricky. You can't leave them. Yet you don't have to stay with your partner... it is probably healthy to leave.

If there weren't kids involved I would move far away and start a new life.

Don't kill yourself. Be strong. There are much much worse things and the reason you are here on this life is to face trials such as these and overcome them... God will take you when he decides. Be strong.

Answer 5

To me, apparently like he's enjoying extremely limbo. How low are you able to pass? How low are you able to pass? How low are you able to pass? this is not ok for him to call him names, this is not ok so which you would be able to be back which comprise him, this is not ok for him to be such an immature, rude, snobby BRAT. he's making use of you as a rag to scrub he's automobile, and you're actually not a rag, you're a megastar. Shine, do no longer enable him get to you! teach him how lots greater mature, proficient, surprising, effective, and greater ideal you're than him. through fact, from what i can examine off him, the only woman who he ought to marry are those interior the downtown strip club, on account that they are the only ones to examine he's snobby, unhappy, tasteless, disrespectful, spiteful character.

Answer 6

Oh -I would do nothing until the next time I found him/her asleep. Then I would completely empty the largest tube of super glue made- on all of the the offending body parts , and keep my appointment with the Lawyer !

Answer 7

I'll consider wat his reasons were and if he really did regret it. U cannot assume that its totally the other party's fault. Overall i'll consider my family and my love for him. Its easier said then done to just say you'll jump down a bridge and die or leave the person.

For my case i forgave him because it was a lack of understanding and trust in the relationship.We are working towards making it better now.. and when i think back i'm happy i didn't choose to leave him.

Answer 8

I'd give her the choice of which one of us she wanted to be with.
If she chose me and the kids, fair enough, we'd have to get on with repairing things. If she chose him, it may be sad but my time will be taken up looking after the kids and making sure they are not hurt too much by it all.

It may sound as if I don't care but the truth is that I care too much to trap someone into a relationship they don't want to be in.

Answer 9

discuss it, see why and what took place. If it looks like a chronic situation, I would leave him. Not angryly, just knowing our time is up. I require a relationship of trust and repsect and monogamy.

Answer 10

I think the song "Hit Em Up Style" by Blu Cantrell is a fine example of what to do in this situation.....