2007-09-14 07:12:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you submissive in bed?
2007-09-14 07:20:22 · update #1
i had a lovely sexual relationship with a guy where i was the submissive one... he says "bend over kitten" i say "ok master" :)
2007-09-14 08:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by peacexlovexrocknroll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Submissiveness is the trait of being willing to yield to the will of another person or a superior force.
Within a relationship there may be a submissive partner. This partner may be trying to appease the other(s) through agreeing to their command.
2007-09-14 07:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by braves fan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Submissive in bed is one's ability to allow the other to have their way with them any way they choose--without resistance.
Degrees of erotic submission vary: The "sub" can, free of any bounds, be put in a sexual position and offer NO resistance; imagining there are real bounds to render themselves helpless; they can also be loosely "tied" w/ silk scarves or bounds that can easily--but aren't--undone.
The "sub" may also be subject to being physically bound, tied to where escape or resistance is hard or impossible, allowing the dominant ( "dom" ) the power to do whatever they want.
You don't have to be into BDSM (bondage) to enjoy this sexual enhancement: "normal" couples enjoy some degree of sub/dom sex, w/out realizing it fully; to a degree we ALL do.
2007-09-14 07:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Submission huh. You can find the actual defnition on http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/submitting
If you are being submissive it takes a lot of trust. To let yourself completely go to somebody. You have to let yourself completely go to enjoy the full effect of it. It is a very sensual thing.
Enjoy :-)
2007-09-14 07:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by Brooke T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be "submissive" is to let your partner control you in the bedroom. Not in a disrespecting, abusive way. But, in a mutual agreement. When someone is "submissive" their partner is usually on top of them during intercourse. The submissive one is basically "along for the ride" and the "dominator" is the one "driving". Good Luck
2016-04-04 20:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To allow the other person to have all of the control and make all of the decisions of how it plays out.
2007-09-14 07:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to give yourself over to the desires of your partner. most women expect the man to initiate and press their wants sexually. this gets old real fast. better to give and take. i personally prefer a woman who can express her desire passionately on occasion. and i have been known to be very willing to be used sexually. there is nothing degrading about it, simply a swerve on how pleasure is experienced.
2007-09-14 07:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by bilez1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To give complete control to the other person.
2007-09-14 07:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that your partner takes complete control either pysically or using bondage. This is supposed to be completely consentual.
2007-09-14 07:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to provide pleasure for and at the whims of your partner with out asking for anything in return, that doesn't mean you don't like it though or that your partner doesn't give you pleasure but they sort of decide what to do.
2007-09-14 07:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋