I feel that girls/women should give me a chance, an to grow worthy of a nonsexual/nonaddulterating romantic relationship in which requires hugs,kisses, and cuttling/snuggling up to/with me. that is all that I am asking for.
2007-09-14 06:32:07 · 10 answers · asked by Steve Loielo 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
You must be chasing the wrong women, there are plenty out there who could care less how much you make.
2007-09-14 06:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by mrskerlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only girls who are going to judge you for not being rich are shallow girls who you shouldn't care about.
It is in our "genes" to look for a husband who will provide for a family, so we do kinda tend to look for someone who is responsible and has a job and sometimes that leads to having money...honestly though, it rarely leads to being super rich. Most people are somewhere in the middle.
Also, with the way things are changing these days, and girls/women are able to make more money than they were 50 years ago, women will start to not see a man's wealth as important as it was back then.
Just stay positive and keep looking. You'll find who you're looking for. :)
2007-09-14 06:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference between being "not rich" and being "dirt poor." If you work hard and are smart with your money, you should be able to keep your head above water without going into debt. If you're in debt, jobless, and/or just absolutely terrible with money, can you blame them for not being interested? If you're jobless, you're lazy. If you're in debt and bad with money, you have to fix that before you can expect to support a family.
If you're just "not rich," I don't think girls discriminate against that. Okay, well, the kind of girls you would want around would not discriminate against that. There must be something else driving them off.
2007-09-14 06:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jim Baw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steve your asking too much... But, there is always hope.. Just be your normal poor self -- consertative and frugel and you will meet a mate with the same thoughts of life... Love is more important than buying stuff... But, there is a catch and you must do things to try and improve the monthly income... I know that a swell card board box living under the I-95 bridge is great... Steve -- ya need to grow...
2007-09-14 06:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by Gerald 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure it is about not being rich?
Could you be thinking that someone isn't interested just because you feel like you lack much funds?
There are plenty of good women who would love to have a man want that type of thing...
2007-09-14 06:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I have never had a rich boyfriend and I would consider myself an average woman. Maybe you're going for the wrong type of woman i.e. ditzy
2007-09-14 06:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..as the love seems to dissaper ..and they all the time get cheated and become the servant of the family..the women starts to look for rich men..who could at leats offer them some money for such a big work of a mother..there are also whores..women with small brain who likes clothes and cars..and sex..they are too possesed by devil..so they are not interested in being caressed..qand loved for their soul ...they are interested in being*** twice a day...
2007-09-14 06:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
god bless you, i hate it when there's things that i can't do if i'm not rich enough... if i were you, i wont go after the ones that you're after coz even if you're rich they will still use you. my advice is to find other girls that aren't money=minded... cheer up sooner or later you'll find the right one for you. you juz have to keep looking...good luck in doing so!
2007-09-14 06:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by f1 car 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend doesn't have a lot of money, i'm with him because he treats me well, i dont care about his financial situation- also he treats my daughter (from a previous relationship) well. any woman worthy of your time will be with you because you're YOU not because of your money. i hate women that date a man because of the money he makes or what kind of degree he has...all women are NOT gold-diggers i PROMISE you.
2007-09-14 06:42:15 · answer #9 · answered by ~kim~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not the size of the wallet. Get it?
2007-09-18 02:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋