Okay, the first thing to do is calm down.
In my opinion, thirteen year old girls don't need to be kissing anybody. Nope. Nope. Nope. Don't have a boyfriend until you're serious about finding a husband. Your whole life will be better for it, and your heart won't get broken. That's my opinion.
There is a book you can buy at Amazon by William Cane called "The Art of Kissing." Make a note to yourself to buy it for your 16th birthday. It will tell you everything you ever wanted to know about kissing.
Thirteen year old girls don't need to be wearing makeup, either, in my opinion. If you must, a little lip gloss, mascara if you need it (top eyelid only) and maybe some light powder on shiny areas. If your complexion is freckley or something, you can use some foundation for that, but it's got to be really lightweight. There is no bigger turnoff than cakey foundation.
Wasn't Vanessa Williams a cover girl for some makeup line? How about the makeup Halle Berry uses? She's a very light mix. You can look at any magazine and find her beautiful face and the makeup she's selling.
Getting rid of zits--this takes some imagination, but here goes. Take off your rings and watch (blocks energy flow). Get comfortable with lots of pillows. Put your right palm on your left calf and your left palm on your right calf. Use the pillows to support anything that gets tired, like your arms. You want to relax completely. Stay in that position for 30 min. Do it for a couple, maybe 3 days. It's okay to watch TV while you're doing this and you can do it more than 30 min if you want better, quicker results. I used this on my son, and a 17 yo acne/pimple face turned into a baby's butt. It's an ancient Chinese healing method.
My first kiss was 3, and it was plghhh. After that I was kissed at 15 and it was sloppy :(. But when I was kissed by my husband-to-be for the first time (22), WOW! Warm energy! Filling my soul. I had a warm melty feeling for days after that.
Unless you are sure the guy is clean (free of disease) I'm not sure I'd share tongues with him. If his tongue has been where it shouldn't have been, he may have picked up an STD. That's right. An STD in his mouth.
If you still want to (save this until you're really excited), he'll touch his tongue on your lips and that's asking you to open your mouth. You let him in, play with his tongue with your tongue, and if you want, stick your tongue in his mouth. Be sure to brush or eat a tic-tac first.
You've got to guard your affection, sweetie. Don't go out with just anyone. Make sure they look like they have a good character. Good grades, doesn't break rules, nice, takes care of dressing nice, hair cut, etc. If you go to church, I'd recommend someone from there, so that if things get serious, you have a foundation of shared faith. And here's the best advice anyone will ever give you.
Choose a really good person, with all the above aspects. If you find he's really great, THEN allow yourself to fall in love. First, choose with your mind, and if he passes that test, fall in love. Don't wait too long, though, because your heart may become attached, and you will lose the right to choose. Your heart already did it for you.
TX Mom
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2007-09-14 06:06:32
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answered by TX Mom 7
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Its weird i got my first kiss on monday and it was strangely easy i was s o suprised and he is older so I was suprised when he said your a really good kisser .Its not a big deal just move your lips and wear chapstick in a fruity flavor because lipgloss is sticky and it feels disgusting during a kiss
For the acne
A plain baking soda and water mask is by far the best you can do for acne prone skin. Mix a water and baking soda in a cup until the consistancy of a thinner paste. Pat on face (do not rub) and let sit till it hardens then rinse off. This has done miracles for my sensitive acne prone skin!! Plus it's all natural! Sometimes I add a few drops of tea tree oil too.Can use without tea tree oil.Can use as a spot treatment .Will reduce redness and you will barely notice the pimples.
RAW EGG
Crack egg whisk and apply to skin leave for 15 to 20 minutes.Smells and feels weird but you see iand feel it working after the first use.
Aloe Vera Plant
cut off a piece and squeeze the goopy gel inside and apply to skin.It lightens and fades scars while fighting and preventing acne.Apply before bed let dry[2-3 min tops]and sleep with it on soft glowing skin in the morning.
BIG CHANGES HAPPEN HOPE I HELPED
2007-09-14 07:58:15
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answered by meri 6
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Ha. Well. Depending On What Kind Of Kiss. If it is just a peck make sure your lips are not chapped try to make it slow but not to slow. just make it three regular seconds. For Frenching. you Will Just Know How No Way To Know How. Don't Be to Aggressive... lol. Make sure it is the right moment. Like if you don't want it in public or... For first i would just do a three second "peck on lips or cheek. I would recommend right beside lips.... No Way To practice For Kissing Unless You Want TO Kiss And Object.... Like the air or a wall etc. Welcome Good Luck Hun :)
2016-04-04 20:38:34
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answered by Anonymous
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Hun. I wouldn't worry about "how" you kiss someone. I'm fifteen, I got my first kiss at thirteen as well. I was probably as nervous as you. It's really not as big of a deal as people say it is. I wouldn't go tongue first time you kiss someone though. As earlier stated, you don't want to give off the impression that you are looking for sex.
If you're worried about kissing this guy and having zits, you probably don't feel comfortable enough with him to kiss him haha.
If he likes you, he wont care.
good luck
2007-09-17 11:17:19
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answered by Anonymous
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a good make-up brand is Almay or maybelline.
Humm the tongue might take you to another level.
I heard toothpaste or Asprin will get ride of zits the asprin just mix it with alittle water to make a paste.
I was 14..No it was not it was not the write guy I just felt it could have waited.
I kiss fine I know a guy that my kisses drive crazy. Now he was the right guy =)
2007-09-14 05:47:43
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answered by flyressa 3
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try just a simple closed mouth kiss on the lips. you don't have to think as much about it, so you can focus more on the feeling (plus, it's more age-appropriate). i got my first kiss at 21 and i still don't have the whole tongue thing down at 28. It just doesn't feel comfortable and natural to me. So just do whatever feels comfortable and natural to YOU because if you worry too much about how you're "SUPPOSED" to do it, you lose the moment. But mostly, your first kiss should be something special and should be with someone you love and want to kiss because you love him because it means much more that way. So if you really love this boy and want to kiss him, then i wish you the best of luck., but you shouldn't do it because you feel you have to.
2007-09-14 05:43:47
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answered by Miss Understood 7
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I definately didn't kiss at 13 and I dont' remember wanting to do so... kissing especially with tounge can turn into sex, I would reccommend you to wait another couple of years... It is a beautiful experience, but you'll be able to experience that many times in the future... I had 3 serious boyfriends in my life, and I can still feel butterflies in my stomach when I remember the day my husband kissed me for the first time.
Good luck honey, only you know what's right for you but don't rush yourself just because everyone else is doing it. Ü
2007-09-14 05:38:53
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answered by Optimistic 4
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Good make-up brand is maybelline. (affordable and durable)
With the tongue...U know how you blow bubbles with gum. Do that movement without trying to blow in the bloke's mouth.
Zits...Persagel 10% benzoyl peroxide. Put it on the spots where the breakouts are. DON'T SQUEEZE THEM!!!
i was 12..don't remember how it was.
I kiss fine...revert to my previous answer on the tongue.
2007-09-14 05:37:26
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answered by Yosette_Blades 1
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