He and I have both been separated from our spouses for over a year. One interest we both have is seeing Iceland before it melts away.
Should I go?
My H is now with a woman he is introducing to friends.
It would be for a four night trip.
2007-09-14 05:06:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The separated but not divorced part.
2007-09-14 05:15:19 · update #1
I would go, sounds like a fun trip
2007-09-14 05:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by jenny_deliah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LonelyGirl, your feelings are universal. You are not alone. I'm willing to bet that there isn't a country on earth where some people don't feel the same way you do. Remember: *YOU* are Icelandic - you define your country as much as the other people you don't like. As long as you're in Iceland it can't be that bad a place, right? ;) Travel when you get older - you may wind up missing 'home'!
2016-05-19 04:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Iceland is not about to "melt away".
Secondly, whether to go or not really has to be your own decision. Only you know everything about your circumstances and whether it would be a good idea to go or not. If you and your old boyfriend both really want to go, your marriages are over anyway and nothing else standing in your way, then I don't see why you shouldn't go.
2007-09-15 23:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by undir 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to do some research on Iceland before you go.
What you are asking here is if its ok for a married woman to travel with a married man. If you two are those kind of people, then why even ask? What your husband's behavior has to do with yours, I don't understand.
2007-09-14 05:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I would. Good travel partners are hard to find, and since you are officially separated and your husband is seriously seeing someone else, no one can really fault you for doing the same.
2007-09-14 05:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not seeing anyone and he's not seeing anyone then I would go and have a great time. At least either one of you aren't hurting other people in the process.
2007-09-14 05:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get divorced first. Never start one thing before finishing another. Just because your soon-to-be-ex is behaving without integrity is no reason you have to follow suit.
2007-09-14 05:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iceland before it melts away??? I thought Iceland was actually the greenone. and greenland was the ice one!!!!!
2007-09-14 05:12:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go it will be a cool experience for you ! You already know him ,perhaps the answer lies in why your relationship ended was it through choice or lack of common interests.?
2007-09-14 05:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm have you ever been to Iceland? wind...rain...and a whole lot of boredom are sure to ensue. Save some money and go to Chicago or something.
2007-09-14 05:13:01 · answer #10 · answered by kraft 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋