I certainly know that I'm a lesbian..but I want to change for my friends and to prove others that God alone could make me have a change of heart...but then how could I choose whom to love and not to love?
2007-09-14 04:27:28 · 18 answers · asked by kabuanan 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
my friends are straight and they are girls,it's hard to show so much affection for them beacause they might think that that I'm having an attraction for them too,and I myself am afraid of that. Also,I got so much hurt already because of loving women who happened to be friends which of course chose a guy over me or chose to be straight than to have me,and at a certain point I think it's impure to think of being romantically involved with women which most of the time I uncosciously do.
2007-09-14 04:44:25 · update #1
When you give your life, heart and soul to Christ He will provide you with who you need and what you need. If you start having the urge to be with a woman go straight to God and ask him to intervene,to take these wrong feelings away. God will guide you to the people you need in your life. Even though you may not think it's what you need just remember He knows you better than you know yourself. So trust Him and He will never ever steer you wrong. I know I have been a believer for 2 yrs now and Gods love and blessings are alway's there for the asking as long as you believe in your heart and have faith God will do it for you. Just remember this and keep repeating it. I can do all things through God who strengthens me!
2007-09-14 04:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by new creation 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You're going to cause yourself and those around you more harm by pretending to be somebody you're not. If your being a lesiban was just a phase for you and you feel that it is wrong and god will forgive you, then certainly, use him to overcome it. But you said that you certainly know you are a lesbian which makes me think you could never love a man the way you could a woman and that you will live a life of misery by trying.
2007-09-14 04:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Button 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God made u who u are. Why should u change to make ur friends happy? U were born the way u are, u cant just decide to be straight..u can always pretend and live ur life unhappy. OR u can come to terms with urself and accept urself so u can live the life u were meant to.
2007-09-14 04:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well take the simple road
There are things in life I desire. Things I want but can never obtain. For example A kid in a candy store has 33 cents. The candy he wants costs 50. The kid has NO DEVINE RITE to the candy bar. He can do what animals do and just act on impulse and take what he wants or he can choose to buy a different peice of candy with in his budget.
Homosexuals particpate in same sex, sex.
As a person you have th rational abilty to act on impulse or act on rational. If you choose to have heterosexual sex you are hetero sexual. If you choose homo sexual sex you are a homosexual. You can have a impulse but choose to over come that impulse with choice.
People do this every day. They may not want to go to work one day but over come that impulse with choice.
Now some peopel struggle with this choice more than others. Every person goes through a childhood gender crisis.
But every person is responsible for there own choices.
2007-09-14 05:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can do it, just pray to God and he will help. Focus on learning his word, and learn how being gay hurts him, to him it an abomination.(leviticus 18:20) You seem already that you want ot change so that the first step. The world has you confused and in a daze, get out of it. Picture your life and your future with God and think of all the blessings that will occur once you accept Him. He will help you overcome any obstacle if you truly want to.
2007-09-14 05:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by -.- 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't chose to be straight. You can only choose not to engage in gay behaviors. If ones believes in Christian doctrine - it is about hating the sin and not the sinner. So it is OK to be gay, just not do anything gay.
You cannot choose to love someone just because they are the sex you want them to be. People have tried those sort of marriages for political and business gain for decades. They rarely work.
Any God would to give people feelings of love that are sinful is heartless. If there is a God I don't believe him to be heartless. So either God exists and God is good and Gay is good OR God exists and is heartless and is no one I want to live my life with any consideration to or there is no God.
2007-09-14 04:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't just choose to be straight anymore then I can choose to be a lesbian. Find friends who will love and except you for who you really are,anything less is not a true friend to begin with. You are who you are for a reason,embrace it and don't change to try and please others. This is your life. It took me a long long time to learn to put my needs before others but trust me it makes for a happier life.
2007-09-14 04:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jellicle Cat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
While at first I figured this post was a satire I am determined that you are in fact, serious. What the hell is wrong with you gurl!? Gay is beautiful! Accept yourself, be proud of yourself, and live happily ever after. This stuff isn't that complicated! ^_^
2007-09-14 06:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
attraction is a natural god given instinct
not a man made emotion
gooooooooooood luck
2007-09-14 05:48:28 · answer #9 · answered by slopoke6968 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your heart loves women, you cannot change that, accept it and live a great life. God loves you no matter what.
2007-09-14 04:31:26 · answer #10 · answered by zzyzx08 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋