did i do the right thing?

Question

from 2 days ago my boyfriend friend asked me if i can babysit his 2 years old son coz his wife have class from 5:30-9:00pm and he have to go to work so i said yes..at 7:00 he came home and he said lets take a wake outside with the kid i said ok....guess what guys his wife came at 7;30 and saw us walking outside she was upset from him and she said what are u doing home he said i just came to see how they are doing and why ur not in school..anyways the problem is that when i left he called me at 9;10 pm and asked me to go out with him and have a coffee :O i said NOOO thanks so the next day his wife textMSG me on my cell phone asking me what time im coming tonight i said i cant and i told her why ..do u think i did the right thing by telling her what her husband did??? coz my bf is very upset from me and we broke up b-coz i did that :(

Answer 1

That is a hard one. With out knowing more I really have no idea. The guy could have really just wanted someone to talk to about things that were going on and thought he could talk to you because you were seeing his friend. I for one do nto think I would of told the wife. I would not have watched the kid though if I was worried about her husband. But, your boy friend calling things off with you is wrong. If he was my man he would have been pissed that his friend was seems like hitting on my girl. So you really were in a mess here.But, as a wife I would be greatful to you for you truthful fact about my man calling you at night. If you did what you felt was right in your heart than learn from it and move on is all I can say. At lest you are a very nice lady would will not stand for any guy trying to mess around.

Answer 2

It seems like you were trying to do a good thing in babysitting this child. When you realized that your being out walking with him was causing trouble between this couple, you also did the right thing in not wanting to continue in causing trouble.

You must have realized that your boyfriend was married. When his wife text you that she wanted you to continue to babysit, it sounds like she isn't too upset about your relationship to her husband.

I think the guy is doing the wrong thing in putting you under so much pressure, when you are trying to do the right thing.

Answer 3

You did the right thing! How could you even doubt that? And your EX boyfriend (you should be thankful) sounds like a real douche bag. Good job girl. I wish more girls would stick up for each other and do the right thing when their man is bein shady.

Answer 4

you mean you were baby sitting your boyfriend's friend?

firstly, talk to your bf bout this. discuss bout this whole situation and explain to him. he might just understand and everything will be ok again?

secondly, yes, you did the right thing. a married man shoudnt go out meeting lady at night unless accompanied with his wife. it may jus be a gathering or just chilling out, but it might get people talking.

good thinking! and most importantly, go talk to your ex-bf rite now! pity you that your noble intention of taking care of a child turned out to be like this....gud luck! :)

Answer 5

You did the right thing & if your boyfriend was real he would understand - it seams to me he broke up w/u because u told on his friend, but his friend's wife deserves to know what kind of man she's married to

Answer 6

Your boyfriend did the wronge thing by having kids and getting married then having a girlfriend on the side.

Answer 7

I don't even understand what you supposedly "did" but you're better off not dating a married man anyway.

Answer 8

Stay far far away from this man and his family.
It is a time bomb waiting to explode.

Answer 9

Yes you did. Your bf sucks.

Answer 10

yes