this guy is 48 been married 2x divorce 2x. i just want to hang out and ride in his caddy truck. my sister tells me he need time to heal over his divorce. im not trying to start a relationship so whats the big deal so tell me the pro and the cons
2007-09-14 04:11:02 · 8 answers · asked by champ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It takes alot of time to get over any relationship. He needs more time to heal from it. You may not be intentionally wanting to start a relationship but you know it is in your mind. Why else would you really want to hang around with him? Dating someone so soon after the end of a relationship is very bad. Trust me, I know.
2007-09-14 04:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is right if you're looking for a long term relationship...he's probably not the best candidate because he's still healing and that process takes some unpredictable turns at times. On the other hand, if you're looking for something light and casual this could very well be good for both of you...it just depends on what your expectations are at this point.
2007-09-14 04:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is just looking after your feelings as a good sister will do, he is probably emotionally attached to his marriage and the chances are you will be a re-bound and later find someone he likes better . Called emotional baggage. Hey some guys just don't have this but statistics say men mourn longer than women. Go figure, this is only my opinion. Goood Luck!
2007-09-14 04:21:19 · answer #3 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pros -- a ride in his caddy truck, which obviously means a lot to you
The cons -- he's using you, you're using him, so no strings attached
2007-09-14 04:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Leah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you know what you want and are being a big girl, then go for it.
But, I wouldn't want to go and hope for marriage, because, surely after marrying twice and getting it wrong, then it's either because he has poor skills in choosing for himself or he's not the sticking type.
2007-09-14 04:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pro - He's on the rebound, and you're there to catch his sex.
Con - he doesn't perform long because he's to excited. Probably hasn't had it in a while, and you'll probably giggle about it and make him feel bad.
LOL
2007-09-14 05:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes men can be a bit clingy after a big split. Want to move too fast toward something serious.
If you're able to keep that from happening, more power to you!
2007-09-14 04:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by dynomoose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with it if you have no expectations. You get what you want, he gets what he wants. Problems arise when you want something more than he can/will provide or vice verse, just keep it casual.
2007-09-14 04:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by ♦justme♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋