talking with each other every day? this is my friend´s case, she is the sister seeing her ex brother-in-law...she claims there are no romantic feelings involved and doesn´t understand her sisters negative feelings about this situation...there are kids involved (who are confused!) and the sister and husband were together for over 20 years...I think she´s playing with fire and should look for another best friend..
2007-09-14 03:41:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Goodness... what a tangled web they weave ;-) I think you are absolutely right, she needs to leave that one alone before it turns into something that WILL be even more of a problem. Why would she do this and make so many people uncomforatble? AH!
2007-09-14 03:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by nikiandneish 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not think I would mind if my sister came to visit her nephews/neices at my ex-husband's house. I'm sure, also, after 20 years, your friend came to be friends with her brother-in-law. I don't know how that would be confusing to the children...I could understand if she was sleeping over and stuff, but just being friends I do not see a problem. Of course, if the husband was abusive or something, I would understand if the ex-wife feels betrayed by their friendship. But if it was a mutual separation, I see no problems.
2007-09-14 03:48:47 · answer #2 · answered by emily1980 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, it's entirely possible that the other sister was a complete jerk, so why should the sister take sides with a jerky sister? Perhaps she feels morally obligated to show some compassion and friendship to the ex husband who was part of the family for 20 years? What, now because the sister is throwing him out the rest of the family has to follow suit? They can't have their own feelings and opinions?
2007-09-14 03:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Most people do not stop loving their x spouse.... they don't want to be married any more because they can't trust them.... because they have been hurt by them...etc... Especially when they have children together.... this woman was a part of his life for many years.. so it's going to be normal to look for her... I do not blame you for be jealous however... your husband did not love his x enough to tollerat the abuse of her cheating on him.... He would not have gotten married to you or anyone else if he was hoping to hook back up with his X..... He is not... As for the sister.... she will end up being a part of his life one way or another especially if she is the kids aunt.... IF he is sharing pictures and news about his new life with you that's great.... See he wants her to know that he is happy and that he loves his new wife...IF he was unhappy he would not want to share any "news" of his new life.... and if he was hoping to get back with his x he would keep the News non existant.... with I made a mistake thrown here and there... he is not...who knows maybe it can reach a point where your going to feel confident enough to be "friends" for the kids sake as well as your own sanity.
2016-05-19 03:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my sisters dated the other ones ex boyfriend for almost 5 years and I always thought she was insanely rude. There were no children involved, but still. There was nothing super interesting about this guy either. The human animal.
2007-09-14 03:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by diamondbullet66 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't like it so much.....I think it is wrong for the sister to become so called "best friends" with her sister's ex husband. I can only just imagine my ex telling my sister all the secrets that we once shared....or sharing ANYTHING with her....gross!!!
2007-09-14 03:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she is playing with SERIOUS fire and should cut it out before it gets much worse. Man, I would tear my sister's eyes out if she went near my ex, let alone became friends with him.
2007-09-14 03:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would feel totally betrayed by her. She is purposely choosing her sisters Ex over her sister.
2007-09-14 03:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your ex husband asked a question here earlier this morning.
2007-09-14 03:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by meagain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
betrayed..i have been there done that and its not fun...my ex actually is with my sister inlaw now but i have a sister who wanted him too...popular man he dated my older sister before me....dont do family it hurts
2007-09-14 03:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by Patricia Ann 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋