ok so i used to go out wiht this boy named Chris last year and when i was going out wit him he introduced me to his friends. one of them was named Terance. ok so me and terance got a lot closser and we were pretty good friends. then in june me and chris broke up. well i broke up wit him but we kinda desided that we should just be friends. so now me and chris r still good friends.
ok so about days ago i was telling my friend who i call Lips about when i was with bhris and terance asked me for a chip and i fed it to him like a baby and Lips was saying ,"oh so u were feeding him?" and i was like yeah i guess and she gave me this weird smie and asked me if i like Terance. and i said yeah he's ok as a friend. then that night i had this dream where i was sitting on this patio and terance was sitting next to me cryingand i asked him what was wrong and he told me that his grildfriend was using him. so i was holding him and then was started talking about how he didn't deserve that and then
2007-09-14 03:30:59 · 11 answers · asked by Myisha B 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
we looked into eachothers eyes and kissed. but i never really thought about terance like that before. so when i woke up all i could do was smile because when we kissed in my dream i felt a spark that i never felt when i kissed Chris. but even thought it was just a dream i felt something.
so yesterday i was outside and i was thinking about walking with this other boy alfredo home(even though he's just a friend i used to like him and i think he likes me now) so i was waiting for him.so when he came out so did terance and said, "terance hi!" and hugged him and then alfredo said, "u know he's ging out wit somebody?" so i said, "yeah i know." but i didn't really know and now all i can do is think about terance. what should i do. i can't be falling in love with him because if i do ever get the courage to ask him out i don't wanna get hurt by the classic rejection, "i can't go out with my friends ex-girl." so i guess my question is, how do i stop likeing him? if there is a way...
2007-09-14 03:31:15 · update #1
well actually i'm not miss popular. i have lots of friend though and um by the way Lips is a girl.
2007-09-14 08:39:16 · update #2
Tell him this just as you did us. There is no problem telling someone how you feel. Just say you know he has a girlfriend but you thought he should know how you feel. Who know's maybe he feels the same way. If not you didn't put yourself in the spot to be rejected.
2007-09-14 03:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by Tara Elaine 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if its meant for you two to be together you'll be together
in time you will eventually let him go
i'm not saying that its going to be easy but you'll move on
and you may even find someone that makes feel a million more sparks than terance
2007-09-19 15:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by L0V3_$T0N3D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u need to decide if the dream terrance is the same as the real like terrance. That spark might have not been there in real life. While you might actually have feelings for terrance, your feelings were not there until you kissed dream terrance.
2007-09-14 15:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay last year i had a crush on a boy named Connor. i really wanted to stop liking him cuz' i knew he didn't like me, so i had me friends write a list of bad things about him and so many other things, none of them worked. but then after like 6 months i just didn't like him. time is the answer to your question, there's no other way.
2007-09-14 10:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
oh wow i would tell him how u feel and well about the not liking him part umm.. i would try and find a new guy thats cute and nice or you could just wait for him to brake up with his gf * girl friend *
hope this helps good luck :)
2007-09-14 11:08:08 · answer #5 · answered by Kaylee M 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Proverbs 4:23
Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life.
Every time you allow a piece of your heart or your purity to be given away, you loose a part of yourself that is meant for God and your husband. You're also creating a lot of baggage that your hubby will have to pay for.
I suggest, "Passion and Purity" by Elizabeth Elliott.
2007-09-14 11:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by ElioraImmanuel 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Girl you not right because that was yo ex-boyfriends friend and you not suppose to do no **** like that because that's down right nasty.
2007-09-21 18:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was along story you have!!!!!
but anyway you could tell him about what you felt for him and maybe he has a hidden desire for you.....desire"crush"on you
2007-09-21 19:17:22 · answer #8 · answered by ned 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well aren't you miss popular.
hook up with lips, that will just follow your trend.
2007-09-14 15:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by bluebreeze18 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should write a book.... no wait you already did....
How about joining a convent? That would solve all your problems!
2007-09-14 10:42:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋