divorce has nothing to do with a third party it was mainly financial probs that caused break down,her sister is single and we've always got on realy well,she thinks her sister is wrong to divorce me ! and has been there for me
2007-09-14 02:17:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like a good way to wreck a couple of families instead of just your own. Efficient and effective.
2007-09-14 02:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that what you are trying to do is create a clone of your wife by using the next best thing...her sister. Unless you and your SIL have been fooling around all this time, how and why do you think the feeling would be mutual with your SIL? Just because she is being kind and a friend to you, what makes you think she will want to get involved? Most people don't want someone on the rebound, much less open up this particular can of worms if you know what I mean. If finances is the reason for your divorce, what makes you think it won't be a problem with your wife's sister? To me it sounds like your sister in law is just being nice to you because you were part of her family and I have no doubt that you two may have formed some kind of bond but that is only because you had one thing in common and that was your wife/her sister. Now that your soon to be ex will no longer be in the picture, I am sure your SIL will not be either once the divorce is final. So if you're positive that your marriage can not be saved, then you need to sever all ties with that family or you'll never move on with your life. Stop using your SIL as a stand in for your wife.
2007-09-14 04:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by Catlover 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on how long the marriage lasted and the years which you have been actual chuffed. i'd say falling in love every time interior 6-8months after a divorce is tooooooooo quickly. it will truly be such as you're on the rebound for a guy that's faulty and so no longer nicely actual worth the greater bags this is effective to convey.
2016-11-10 10:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by pellenz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of fish in the sea, not just those rare soulmates people are fond of talking about. Your sister-in-law is a supremely bad choice for you. If you must divorce, I would seriously caution you in going down that path. It's your life, your choices, and your consequences. Oh and she will be a serious black sheep in the family should you two hook up.
2007-09-14 02:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by jcsuperstar714 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So it makes it ok for you move from your wife who's divorcing you and moving onto her sister and causing a rift in their family just so you can get your rocks off?Did you and your wife have kid's ? imagine the stigma on them from having their aunt become their step mother please dont do this be an adult and go find a hobby for a while.
Dude take the advice I gave you in your original question 3 months long service leave , a holiday to get over the pain of your divorce from your wife and stay the hell out of her sister's knickers PERIOD!!!!!
My ex sister in law went from my 2nd oldest brother to my youngest brother and then moved in with my ex husband NOTHING good is going to come of it do you understand yet? there is NO yes answer here for you.
wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong simple.End of discussion.
2007-09-14 02:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both of u should back off...dont do family its WRONG...think of christmas and u being with her sister at the family dinner its just wrong and unfair to everyone
2007-09-14 02:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia Ann 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do either of you think the in-laws are gunna except that it just happened ?C'mon find one of the other million girls in the world that aren;t related to your wife!!
2007-09-14 03:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by **RUBY*** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter what the cause of divorce was, u don't even THINK about dating your x's friends, enemies, family, etc. that's asking for trouble....
2007-09-14 02:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by babybear 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
easy router - JUMP OUT OF BED WITH ONE SISTER AND STRAIGHT INTO BED WITH THE OTHER..........
Give us a break - ever heard of venturing out into the big bad world and finding a new partner nothing to do with the old one - it can only spell trouble.......
2007-09-14 03:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by sal-your pal 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You and the sister will be breaking a huge rule....No way, that's way wrong!!!
2007-09-14 02:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by abby 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋