pls. help me if I am right or wrong for this??? eversince, I never been so free to do what I want for myself. after I finish college until now I been working for almost 9 years on my job, and I never experience given my self a break to make myself happy. I never go out, or to priorities my self needs. I help my family as I can before buying something for me, atleast twice a year, (hard to explain what my situation right now) but would be good for me that I am planning to priorities my need maybe 10 years from now. to explore different places that i want to go or whatever that I want to do. (I am now 28 years old) and still doing my routine life work and home.
2007-09-13 22:01:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You do what needs to be done.
2007-09-13 22:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self-discover, espacially after so many years can be a two edge sword. It is a great thing for you to get this feeling, but after so much time and history in your current situation you need to be cautions. Sometimes we can loss sight of the reason why we keep ourselves lock away for so long, when we did have some pretty good reasoning behind that. So just be careful don't to ever loss the big picture about why you sacrificed yourself for 10 years. And also be easy on yourself, you'll know what I mean as you progress down this path.....
2007-09-14 12:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms Love,
You have to start living your life for you and it doesn't mean that you are letting your family down. Take a trip to the place you are most interested in. Explore, as much as you can, anything and everything that you have longed for, but plan for that just like you did everything else. When you are doing what you love, you will finally be enjoying your life instead of feeling as if you are imprisoned. Go for it. C. :)!!
2007-09-16 06:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋