How can I make my girlfriend orgasm / ejaculate in the shortest amount of time possible?

Answer 1

Why are you in a hurry? Women typically take longer than men to orgasm, and if she knows you're trying to race her through it, it will make her self conscious and unable to enjoy the moment, and ironically, take her longer to get there. It's frustrating for a woman to be rushed. If you're only looking for technique, then good old oral sex would be the easiest.

Answer 2

This is a hard question, because your girlfriend could have a hormone imbalance which in acupuncture is illustrated by the kidney, also spleen and urinary bladder meridian that runs up the inside of the leg/knee and over the knees etc, reference given. if there is pain, then her and even for men their yin and yang our out. And, they mightn't wish sex. This can be a very unconscious matter as the feelings can be so deep. And, reason's for it can be shock in early life. For some enjoyable sex could be sex toys. For others watching an adult video. For others doing in a moving vehicle, lift extra... Many people are too embarrassed to talk about such things, but, I'm an astrologer as well, and it is said that Mars rules the Penis, and Virgo's - Mercury? rules the Virgin this could also mean Virgina as we do associate words with other words because english has come from greek and latin and so do names of plants and before modern science so did names of planet and constellations. I do believe there are planets for every constellation, and when I've looked at charts with pluto, which rules sex, other's real estate, reproductive organs, death, there has always been some type of death whether physical, mental or monetary etc. it does depend on the constellation, the exact degree, which if a person well enough versed could pinpoint the exact areas in physiology. I'm still working on it and I've lost, for the time being, my encyclopeadia. Good luck, it's a hard question as I said

Answer 3

First, let's make sure we're clear on the difference between female orgasm and female ejaculation. Women can have orgasms from a variety of types of stimulation, but most commonly from clitoral stimulation. A woman's primary organ of pleasure is the clitoris, so stimulating it is "quickest", most direct way to bring a woman to climax. Female ejaculation, on the other hand, is the expulsion of fluid (NOT urine) from the urethra which sometimes, NOT all the time, occurs during an orgasm from the stimulation of the g-spot, which is located a few inches inside the vagina, on the front wall. The most direct way to stimulate it is with your finger or fingers, by inserting them in her vagina and stroking it using a "come here" gesture. But this will not necessarily result in orgasm OR ejaculation, it depends on the woman and, sometimes, the occasion, and it's not a quick process. It generally takes much longer to induce a g-spot orgasm than it does to induce a clitoral orgasm. And it's entirely up to her to decide if she wants to try it. Some women love it, some women don't. Some women aren't particularly interested in finding out.

Beyond that, only she can tell you how to pleasure her and bring her to climax quickly. But don't put too much emphasis on doing it quickly. Fast orgasms are not necessarily the best ones, for one thing. Also, how quickly she wants to come can depend on what mood she's in and, most importantly, many women CAN'T orgasm quickly, and most can't as quickly as men can. All women are different, there's not a manual to the female body, whatever Maxim may want you to think. The most important thing in pleasuring your girlfriend is finding out what she likes, which you do with sensitivity and communication. Keeping those principles in mind will help you much more than "moves" you could hear about from any self-proclaimed sex expert because, when it comes to her body and how it works, your girlfriend is the best expert. You have to consult her. Ask her questions, try things out, and always remember to make her feel comfortable directing you or showing you what she wants. As a woman, I can tell you that the best lovers are the ones who do this.

And just a few basics: If your concern for her coming quickly stems from a concern about ejaculating quickly during intercourse, remember, plenty of foreplay before intercourse and try stimulating her clitoris during intercourse, since most women need at least some clitoral stimulation to climax. Also, try to find some techniques to slow yourself down (taking breaks during intercourse and stimulating her works for some guys). If you work on this stuff, you should have an easier time synchronizing your orgasms if that's what you want. And, of course, just practice. Sex gets better as partners learn each others' bodies better. Good luck!

Answer 4

Slow down. Women take longer then men, I believe the average is 20 minutes. Some women can orgasm much faster though. You need to turn her on, tell her what she wants to hear, caress her, kiss her then focus on her clitoris. If you are trying to go to fast she's going too think you only care about getting yourself off.
If my guy didn't spend time on me then I wouldn't spend any time on him.
If you want her to ejaculate you would have to get her to have a G-spot orgasm and there is no fast way to do that.

Answer 5

Doing a little out door recreational activities; a lunch quickie, or a romp in the closet at work, ... great reasons for a short quickie orgasm for her. But if your doing this in the bedroom, take it slow. To help you on the quickie; it helps if the occasion has risk or a lot of passion in it, gets the bodies reacting and then start with what stimulates her more, G Spot, Clit or whatever... but work on that spot using whatever have available and keep at it. But its all about knowing what she enjoys and gets her going the fastest.

Answer 6

hi
what's the hurry?
woman don't mind the occasional quickie, where only the man reaches orgasm, but most woman need time to reach their orgasm, as said the average time is 20Min's,

it can be really of putting when it feels like your being timed, do you go to bed with a stop watch or something? lol, slow down, savour and enjoy for goodness sake, your not competing for the Olympics.

cathybaby x

Answer 7

First of all trying to get her to orgasm quickly is a turn off. Most women think that being loved and caressed and made love to is a turn on and in turn will make her orgasm. You cant just stick it and expect her to orgasm. Women are VERY different then men!!

Answer 8

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Answer 9

That might be the problem, you are wanting to get it done the fastest possible. Like any great meal, it takes time. So does a woman. My man has got to take his time on me for me to actually relax and get to that point of climaxing.....calm down, relax and take your time.

Answer 10

Women are like tube lights.It takes longer for them to get excited.Longer duration action can only satisfy women.