for men 40 & above,married or not,how can you tell if another man...?

Question

had lost or is about to lose interest in his wife whilst still married to her?

i knew sometimes men get bored with their women or the way their relationship are going or worse,even both,from time to time,but how can we women(wives,girlfriends,de factos) could tell if the boredom will send us the warning signs that youre starting to entertain the idea of leaving us.....for good?

btw,im sorry for the "wifey" part of the question.i had intended at 1st to ask this question to married men at 1st but changed my mind later knowing that some couples had lived together for a long time even if they weren't married.

thanks for those who immediately replied to my question.though i do need specific signs to look at to be able to tell if the man is indeed bored & feeling cold enough to consider leaving his partner for good,& its best seen thru the eyes of another man(as in,say a man seeing such signs in his mate or a man who had been through it )

to terezateaser:keep your opinions to yourself as im asking a serious question about relationship & not sexual or relief advice of any sort!!!people like you should find something more worthwhile to do & say instead of giving unsolicited advice.

Answer 1

things to watch out for,change of routine,saying he is going places he has never mentioned before,making excuses for going out,showing little or no affection,also,try looking at his clothes,does he still have the same amount,are any missing,are any new,check the amount of mail he is getting against what he normally gets,being evasive with direct questions,abnormal amount of calls to his mobile,lots of little things all add up,this is when a man enters his insecurity stage

Answer 2

I'm a 43-year-old Brazilian man and I've been married for almost 2o years. In fact it depends a great deal on the man and on the cullture he is inserted. Here in Brazil men prefer to "cheat" and pretend his wife is the only one ever. Only when the guy follows a religion that does not accept that terrible behavior is that he keeps faithful.

Answer 3

is this like losing ur library book?
i suppose u know when he bored and lost interest when he starts yawning during sex - farts all the time even when ur not in the room - he scratches his balls while he eats dinner -passes out at the thought of going out together -prefers football or sport to any other activity that involves u
falls asleep when u talk - stops shaving - and when hes keeps sying im bored im bored im bored like a 5 year old

Answer 4

some men after been married for a very long time; they will start getting bored; thats they fault,,, most of them just want to be with some younger woman and they just use that for an exuse, so they can it the road and some of them don't even get bored they just realized that there are missing something(kinki------sex) so they decided after so many years to take off they costume and face the consequences.;; i think there are a bunch of old bats;;;; hanging up side down.,,,, thats pretty funny,,,, take care

Answer 5

as quickly as returned... very hysterical! men should not be allowed to graduate intercourse-ed without needing memorized type 26. sure... have self belief it or no longer... maximum females have a gag-reflex. And in case you tension our head any farther down we can... GAG! you need to arise with a parallel checklist of what females ought to do in each and every of the 40 circumstances. which would be relaxing too, according to danger type 26 ought to be something like, 'if he thrusts, chew... if he grabs your head and pushes it down, chew extra durable."

Answer 6

Any relationship can become cold....so good communication is important and also a balance in lifestyle....

Answer 7

If you let it get to that point before you do something about it, it is way too late.

Answer 8

YOU GO GIRL!!!!!