when i had sex for the first time i didn't bleed and it wasn't painful but my boyfriend was very gentle.But the sad thing though we've been togther for 1yr and when i told i was a virgin he didn't believe me cuz maybe i wasn't screaming allover the place or something but penetration was easy and it was good but after having sex for the first time we had to part a few days after due to my family issues so we never got to the bottom of that conversation cuz we lost all contact of each other what should i do? but i'm finally going back to my home town after 2yrs so i'm hoping that we still have our good connection and i could tell him i was a virgin without him thinkin twice bout it..........i think our feelings will never die for each other even though we move on in life
2007-09-13 18:06:14 · 6 answers · asked by Dangerously Gorgeous 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
For some strange reason guys always think it's got to be bloody and painful for the girl to be a virgin. They buy into all the sterotypical stuff..... The hymen can be broken other ways. Depending on how you masturbate or how you are built can help determine if there is pain or not. I had pain but did not bleed. My sister did not bleed and had no pain either.
How sad he doesn't believe you.
2007-09-14 10:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have already broken your hymen: it's pretty easy to do. Some girls break their hymen during gymnastics or horseback riding, or you may have had a small hymen in the first place. You didn't have enough of a relationship with this guy so that he'd believe you were a virgin, apparently, which is sad. You can try contacting him to tell him you're back, but I wouldn't expect too much from him. It sounds like there wasn't enough of a relationship before you had sex for the connection to stay.
2007-09-13 18:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone doesnot bleed when they lose their virginity. Sometimes that has to do with the size of your partner that may cause more pain and bleeding. If he took it easy then thats why you were not in pain. Just because you didnt scream doest mean anything. Size can make a difference in the amount of pain or pleasure. I think that you should see what he thinks but if its been 2years im pretty sure he has not really thought about it
2007-09-13 18:19:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not have pain when i lost my virginity. Your hymen may have already been broken for any number of reasons (which I think is the usual cause of pain). I'm sorry about your situation, but I think there is a bit of myth to the "your first time is awful and excruciatingly painful" thing. I hope you can resolve whatever personal issues you have with him...
2007-09-13 18:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by phreadriquebean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-15 04:47:21 · answer #5 · answered by olli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this can be very normal..... I didn't have any pain and I also didn't bleed the first time either. It was a little tight but nothing bad.
2007-09-14 04:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by aldrich061007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋