and for the past month I have been feeling not too connected to him like I used to.. Maybe it is because we have been arguing for the last month so much....is anyone else having this problem? If so, please let me know ur situations,,
2007-09-13 18:01:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment ➔ Law & Legal
Maybe it's time to move on if things aren't working out. There's other guys out there. I know it'll be hard to break it off, but tell him that you and him can be good friends over the years instead. If he is a nice enough guy he'll understand.
2007-09-13 18:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my opinion I say you guys talk it over. Communication is one of the vital things in relationships. Ive had this same prob and Ive been with my gf for less than a year! But we talk it out, sometimes more than once but things get better as we get to knoww where each of us is coming from.
I dont think you should throw away what you had for just a month of fighting. I think you'll regret it later. Only move on if you dont have the same feelings anymore. Other than that I say talk it over. A little understanding goes a long way :)
2007-09-14 01:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by m4iz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
people telling you their situation isn't going to help "your" situation. If you guys are arguing then you need to straighten that out between the two of you. Remember that marriage gets boring...and there will be times then too that you or he or the both of you will feel "not too connected", even sometimes for years. Talking to your partner is the answer.
2007-09-14 01:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are living together, I would suggest getting out, or kicking him out. That kind of arrangement never works because the girl winds up providing all the services of a wife with none of the benefits, and he has no motivation to change anything.
2007-09-14 01:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋