Just curious. What if the wife does not want to have intimacy in a marriage? Can a marriage work out still?
2007-09-13 17:48:13 · 19 answers · asked by Oh dear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just to make this clear, I'm just asking out of curiosity. I don't have a BF, or getting married people. lol
2007-09-13 17:57:24 · update #1
Now for this example, say that the husband and wife loves eachother very much. But the wife doesn't want to give out her virginity, because it is something she cherishs.
2007-09-13 18:00:04 · update #2
Yes it is possible. As long as hubby knows about this before you get married.
2007-09-13 18:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don’t know a single man who would put up with a marriage without sex merely because the wife doesn’t want to lose her virginity. And I wouldn’t blame a man for not putting up with it. I think it’s utterly ridiculous. Of course, that’s just my opinion.
However, it would be an entirely different situation if there was a legitimate medical reason they couldn’t have sex. But even then, the road would be very rocky.
2007-09-14 01:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Then the answer is HELLS NO LOL it just would not work, no one and I mean no one would go with this I don't care what the degree of love is.. no sex no marriage, if a woman refuse to give up her virginity she can live alone, or become a NUN no man is going to put up with that.. this is the fact.
2007-09-14 08:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you marry someone you don't want to be intimate with???? That just doesn't make sense to me... Don't you both love eachother???
...Unless it's an arranged marriage???
No, absolutley not. A marriage cannot work out without intimacy.
2007-09-14 00:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by ninuccia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And why would the wife not want to consummate the marriage? I would think this would be a convo that would have to take place before marriage, and I dare you to find a man who would agree. Though I'm sure certain circumstances would make it easier to achieve this.
2007-09-14 00:55:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO.
Why be married?
Intimacy is a part of marriage.
USUALLY if you aren't feel attractive about yourself or not feeling attracted toward that person, intimacy fades.
That's how you probably got together in the first place.....INTIMACY:)
2007-09-14 01:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by ANewLife 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the marriage is based on business or other purpose ,it can be. Why not . Many couples pretend that they are happily married ,and they even are not sleep in one bed.
2007-09-14 00:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by azol 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have heard of it, watching a show about this super obese man who couldn't get out of bed ,he was like 1000lbs but married this woman anyway but never "did it".
Platonic relations are rare, but some folks may choose it.
2007-09-14 01:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by atheleticman_fan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, sure, if the hubby is homosexual!! She shouldn't get married in the first place. It's physically possible, but probably not in the realm of normalcy.
2007-09-14 01:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by DinoBaby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its definitely not possible because we all have our needs. It would be extremely selfish for a wife to do that to her husband.
2007-09-14 01:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋