we have a one week old baby boy. Ive been waiting on her hand and foot. I asked for 10 minutes of her time and she shot me down. If you cant rely on wife for that who can u rely on. Anyways what should I do to make up??,
2007-09-13 17:38:54 · 18 answers · asked by the man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your wife just had a baby a week ago then it is really too soon for her to be having sex. It usually takes a month or so before they should. Tell her you didn't realize that it was too soon and say you are sorry it is just that you miss being with her so much. Tell her that is all you've been thinking about and that you were just very frustrated. Bring her flowers and tell her that you love her and can't wait for things to get back to normal. Hopefully she can look at this from your point of view just like you are trying to see hers.
Good Luck
2007-09-13 17:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You are calling your wife a lousy mf? After giving birth just a week or so ago? Man, do her a favor and leave her alone. Do you have any idea how exhausting it is being pregnant and having a baby? It takes MONTHS to recoup after all of that. You should be waiting on her hand and foot. Sheesh, leave her alone man!
By the way, nothing you say can make up for being that big of a turd. You are not numero uno anymore jack! The baby comes first, you LAST. Learn it and live with it!!!
2007-09-13 17:47:07 · answer #2 · answered by lady P 1 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Her direction probably changed about the day the test sample said "PG". Even earlier if she was trying to get pregnant.
So just let things ride for several months, and then decide if she is a sorry MF or whatever (she may be, but let her hormones get realigned first before making the decision.) Also, do her a favor and don't even think of asking her for sex the first three months.
Just be careful you don't come off as the lousy b------!!!!
2007-09-13 17:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by ohenry 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Get down on your knees and BEG!!
First of all, shame on you. The woman just spent 9 months carrying a baby, just popped the kid out a week ago, and she hasn't even had time to heal before you're back to humping her leg and cursing her out because she didn't give in.
You have to pull out all the stops. Flowers, dinner (you find a baby sitter) and you pamper her and let her know that you were being a complete idiot and you will NEVER do it again.
Now, give that woman's body time to heal and get in the shower and go for what you know!
2007-09-13 17:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't try to make up! Your baby is already 168 hours old. How dare your wife not be interested in sex. It's not as if she's been through a lot of physical changes. She should have been all over you 3-6 hours after giving birth. She's not considering your needs!
2007-09-13 19:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by datwhittier 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
First you should say you are sooo sorry, draw her a warm bath, and watch the baby so she can relax. Think about it she carried your little bundle of joy for nine months, sat in labor for how many hours? Then pushed a baby the size of a watermelon out a hole the size of a lemon, just a week ago, she might consider giving you some!!! Get real!
2007-09-13 17:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by JNS 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You sound as though you have been very good to your wife, but by the same token you have to remember that she has just had a baby, and especially if it was the first one , it would have been a shock to the system. She is probably not getting any sleep because of trying to get use to the baby and could possibly have post natal depression. So just be a little more understanding and patient of her for a while. If she doesn't improve take her to your family doctor and get her examined for post natal depression.
2007-09-13 21:39:11 · answer #7 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Cussed her out? She just had a baby. Are you out of your mind?!
Take a shower, get reacquainted with Ma-barker and the girls, but don't you realize that she might be in pain? Better yet, what makes you think she wants to stop what she's doing for a whopping 10 minutes?
What you should do is pray she doesn't leave your sorry ***.
2007-09-13 17:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't call your wife names or belilttle her. You also should have an open and forthright discussion on how yo uboth feel about sex in your marriage. I can understand mayeb she wants ot wait a while after labor, but a general idea is a good thing here. I think you've done all you can. If she continues the artic treatment for more than a day, give it back with dignity this time.
2007-09-13 18:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
THAT was very inconsiderate of you. Your wife just gave birth a week or so ago, therefore she is still bleeding down there, and it is not safe to have sex.. She is still recovering and probably still exhausted. It will take her months to recooperate from this...unless you wanted her to give you a ********, for your own self satisfaction. You need to be patient and loving with her. Give her time, she will let you know when she is ready.
Yes we know men have their sexual needs, and sometimes that head thinks before the other one.
You need to apologize to your wife and really mean it.
If my husband of 26 yrs ever had done that to me, after birthing a child of his.. .. I would have to say we wouldn't of been married 26 yrs!!! NO man would ever be that rude or inconsiderate to me.
2007-09-13 18:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by linda_c_44 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋