Is it normal to want to know everything about someone you have interest in. Like if they person was on the internet would you google him? Or if he had a myspace would you go through and read all his comments and if you knew people that associated with him would you ask them about him? And then after you find out everything (all good) would you ask him out? I would, if I could google someone I liked I would becuase you could find out something very important. It's like doing a research before buying a used car. How many people do things like this? Would you consider this obsessive? I want to know your opinions on this. Long as you don't change who you are to get this person, it's fine right?
2007-09-13 17:22:07 · 33 answers · asked by Cherry 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
lets define first what is an obsession? it is something that you cannot resist. i dont think its an obsession,, u are just fun of doing what you want, its just your own way of meeting and knowing aperson... just becareful of it,..
2007-09-13 17:34:43 · answer #1 · answered by nellakram 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I do tend to read people's Facebook and Myspace comments to learn more about the people they associate with. And, I am also fine with people reading my comments.
On the other hand, I would be a little shocked to see someone googling my name.
Even though I think it's slightly obsessive, what you said is true. As long as you don't change you who are to get this person, it's alright.
2007-09-13 17:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by xo_littledelights 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think of i'm a million of the least obsessive/compulsive human beings interior the worldwide. i do never make my mattress, each and every so often I pass away dishes on the table over nite if i'm too drained to do them,I do handwash yet to no longer extra, i'm no longer fussy in any respect. i will drink out of my husbands glass or my teenagers,and that i'm an exceedingly calm guy or woman.i've got not got any ordinary for laundry clothing or flooring, I do them whilst they get grimy.
2016-11-10 09:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is normal! dont sweat it. obviously you want to get an idea of who he is and what he likes.
the only problem here is that things are not always what they seem. you may read something and jump to an incorrect conclusion about him. the best way, of course, would be to become closer friends with him. but you are not a freak dont worry. most people do this.
2007-09-13 17:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by ƎIΝΟƆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not take a chance and go out with this person, ask all the questions yourself. It is ok to google someone... I have been googled before and I have googled my wife before... if you really want to know someone, get it from the source
2007-09-13 17:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Armyvet 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
it depends on how old you are.
[and if youve had stalkers in the past/abusive men etc.,...gawl, thats ALL IVE HAD since i was 15!]
love ya-
-sERIOUs
PS: hey AM...which website?[my last X turned out to be a pedo___le so...and NO I AM NOT kidding]
GEEZ!whats with all the thumbs down?
told you i was not kidding.
about any of it...either youve been hurt badly in the past or youre 15...its a dangerous world for a girl.
WoW!
Sweetie knows what im talking about!
OK ONE MORE THING this is VITAL:the folks on myspace,facebook etc., WANT TO BE NOTICED!...thats the point.
2007-09-13 17:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
no i don't think it's obsessive i think you are being smart and careful i have had a few relationships where i found out later that the person was not what they claimed to be and had a bad past and i ended up with a stalker! i say you can't be too careful!
2007-09-13 17:32:12 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think that kind of mentality comes from being a girl. I think like that two. I would want to get all the inside info also. Yes I would read all his messages and stuff to. Guy don't think like this thow. I have found that guys really don't think at all lol...
2007-09-13 17:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by Trish 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
No not obsessive,very normal.how else do you find out if you are interested or not,but comparing it to buying a used car,well that's not too cool
2007-09-13 17:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by enjoyinglife4ever 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
That is a bit obsessive... o.O But hey, it's the internet. I don't see anything wrong with it. Hee, mystalk is silly...
2007-09-13 17:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by Emily 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋