have no sex life to speak of? I've never really understood this. There are people who are deprived sexually and rely upon porn to some degree to derive sexual pleasure. Is that so bad? I don't think so. And, I would also venture to say that those of you who are so dead set against most likely have very satisfying sex lives. Obviously, some of you have no idea what it's like to go without. If you did, you wouldn't be so judgmental of those who patronize the porn industry. Afterall, some of these folks aren't as fortunate as yourselves in establishing relationships in which sexual satisfaction flourishes. Maybe you should consider this the next time you get the urge to give porn that bad rap I was speaking of...
2007-09-13 17:17:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only reason why I have negative feelings about porn is really how the industry works... women made up to be so fake and making their appearance far from the average woman. Soon these men that frequent porn stores and watch tons of videos have this expectation that all women must look a certain way...be *** guzzling sluts and bleach their assholes. This isn't the case.. I pity the men that rely on porn because if they spent all that time and money on ways to meet a woman in real life they wouldnt be so lonely.
I understand in some instances the only way a person is able to releave a sexual desire is in the privacy of their own home or a booth in some seedy porn store simply because their lifestyle would not be accepted in society.
2007-09-13 17:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by greyskymourning82 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-18 21:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps porn has its good and bad side. If it is used against woman rights ( including the children and the innocent ) and deviates from its purpose as pure optical entertainment it and has a very bad influence to minors then i can say it is bad....very very bad. But if it is well regulated and we could control that only responsible adults can have access to it and is used for mere entertainment then it is good. look around you, read the headlines and the missing persons and the crimes commited by those in jail not necessary the convicted ones.... ask yourself what are the possible causes of these mishaps. Do you have kids? a kid brother or sister? or know someone who has been a victim of the sex related crime. If you do, ask yourself, would you like these children to be treated as sex slaves or sex experiments? i have nothing againts porns (in fact me and my wife has a private collection of porn materials).... just a concerned citizen who happen to share the gruesome effects of these simple porn materials to the lifestyle of our kids and women today. Perhaps you will say that it will benefit those sexually deprived but do you think those beneficiaries will just stop there? just looking at it? I dont think so.....Psyhologically, they will never stop there they will strive harder to satisfy their sexual needs.... that's part of human nature. I just hope they wont satisfy these needs using other people against their will.
2007-09-20 13:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mystic Victoria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing I have against porn is it almost always shows women in some degrading way. It's in your face gaping vaginas, bad boob jobs and just one sexual act after the other that are rather badly acted and choreographed.
Before you attack others for not being tolerant or understanding of your porn addiction, perhaps you should rely less on the stimulation you derive from the porn and more on cultivating a real live love interest.
2007-09-21 13:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by drewxjacobs 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There is a lot of different types of porn out there. Some of it is pretty degrading and humiliating. Some of it is about torture. Some of it is more about finding pleasure in admiring the human form.
All of the men I have talked to about porn say that there is nothing wrong with it and that it is harmless. However for me it has not been so harmless.
Since I found out that my husband watches a particular type of porn that I find very humiliating, my sex life has been completely ruined and I am no longer able to enjoy sex with him because I know what he is thinking about during it and I know how he views women. It sickens me to know that that type of thing turns him on.
My advice is that if you find humiliating and degrading women entertaining and you want to have a loving trusting relationship with a woman, then you should do everything in your power to hide the porn and never let her find out.
2007-09-13 17:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by Vianka 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree to an extent. I personally believe that everything taken to an extreme is not healthy. I'm sure the average couple has porn. It's healthy to a point, but should not become an addiction or a need. I am against it when it becomes something that the person can not live without. I do not believe one needs it THAT much. It's ridiculous.
2007-09-13 17:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, when a woman's husband spends 8-10 hours watching porn instead of being a husband, or when your son is addicted to watching sex with children under 8 years old that might interfere with a healthy relationship....then there are some of us who just don't like the idea that our man could only get off if he watched porn during sex. It sort of is a big turn off, cause he's into the actress not me!
Too many people I know have husbands who are so addicted to internet or live chat that it ruins their whole lives. $400 month on cell phone sex? That's a whole car payment!
2007-09-13 17:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by atheleticman_fan 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
LOL its not that its when it starts influencing ones mind. they way u treat women or see them...
do u know that those that is addicted to porn expects there women to do the same things or just treats her like a total object??
i think if porn is used to add a factor into ur sex life, or just gives u that boost u need in sexual expeditions its alright..but once it starts influencing the way u think...then it starts becoming a bad thing
2007-09-13 17:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you consider porn. Some people have a broad definition, others cannot stand the thought it exists.
Part of the stigma comnes from, I believe the attitude that one man and one woman should be enough for each other, that looking at pictures is a form of cheating.
Hogwash.
2007-09-21 12:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by greybeads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's erotica and then there's porn.
I have seen some porn movies on TV and frankly, what I see bears no resemblance to real life as I have ever lived it - bleached silicone hoochies pulling these horrendous faces, jutting their lower jaws out like groupers, making the most blatantly insincere comments imaginable "("Oh yeah, baby! Give it to me! OWee!") having pretend sex with paunchy, over-tattooed greasy Eurotrash-looking men with ponytails and receding hairlines, who look as if they haven't showered or shaved in weeks, and the GUYS are jutting their lower jaws out too, pounding away mechanically with a facial expression one associates with the recently lobotomized.
Gee, who wouldn't be turned on by that?
2007-09-21 11:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by pufferoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋